ive been grieving for 2 weeks...i was attracted to this girl and she was to me too...but we realized we have no chemistry. she decided we should just be friends...the thing is, im already in love with her...everytime she calls or when i see her, i hurt a lot, even when shes not around...i dont know what to do...i dont want to lose her, but i know i will hurt to see her happy with someone else...i saw her very talkative with someone, and i wonder why we didnt kick it off like that....its so hard when we're in the same college, knowing her schedule and where she must be....i dont know what to do...i think she made an effort for us to talk, but we just dont click, or i still havent moved on...this really hurts...please give me advice....this is my first time to let my feelings be known to someone, and there i failed...i liked her, she liked me...why cant it be that simple..why didnt we connect?? was it me? this is hurting my esteem too...
2006-11-08 11:01:32 · 4 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep the image in your head of you and some wonderful girl laughing at each others jokes and finishing each others sentences. That is what you want. Sometime you will be with you special girl and think back to the way you feel now and you will feel so grateful that you no longer feel that way and that you have something so much better. You don't want a dull relationship, no matter how attracted you are to the person.
2006-11-08 11:08:18 · answer #1 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress about it and chalk it up to a learning experience. As you go through life, you'll discover that there are many people (men and women) who you won't click with and that's just the way it is. You won't be able to make everyone like you and you won't like everyone. That's the way the cookie crumbles. As for this girl, just take it one day at a time, find new things to do and socialize. When you're least expecting it, someone new will pop into your world.
2006-11-08 19:05:53 · answer #2 · answered by chnchita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll be ok. It'll be hard for now but it's going to take time. You need some distraction. Do things you like doing and try avoiding her. It sounds like you really like her a lot and it might be hard to move on but it's something you are going to have to do. And you don't want someone who you have no chemistry with... you wouldn't have a future anywayz. The right one will come along and you will forget about her...it'll be ok.
2006-11-08 19:07:30 · answer #3 · answered by JamaicanGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not connect for a reason,just accept that premise and go forward with your life,
2006-11-08 19:04:50 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋