They are making me go to a high school really far away from my friends and I don't want to go! Sometimes I start crying at night because I don't want to go at all! HELP ME!
2006-11-08 10:53:48 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you will thank them in the end.
2006-11-08 10:55:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I remember moving when I was in tenth grade. I thought the world was over. Even though we were moving to a home that would actually fit the size of our large family, leaving everyone behind was the worst. I can sympathize with you on missing everyone, but you haven't said WHY your parents are making you go to another high school. Is it better accredited than the one where you want to go? Are there better chances that you'll be accepted to a good college if you go to the school you don't want to? There are many reasons parents make decisions for their children that the children don't like. What I suggest is step out of yourself and actually look at the big picture. Your future is very important. And think of it this way, you don't have to give up your old friends, but you CAN make new ones, then it won't seem so bad.
2006-11-08 19:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by Mommyof4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are they forcing you to go to a different high school?? Have you asked them? Is it because the school you want may have the wrong enviroment? Do you have any valid reasons for wanting to stay in same school as all your friends (college prep classes, mentoring programs, work/study programs) or do you just want to be where the party is? You need to honestly answer these questions and maybe you will come to realize that possibly your parents LOVE you and are doing their best to prepare you for the real world!!! High school only lasts three - four years but real life is FOREVER!! If you work now for your education - just maybe you will get the really good job when you grow up and then you can party all the time!!
2006-11-08 19:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are not evil. They love you and think that this high school is the best for you. You will make new friends there and I don't think they will ever have a problem if you stay in touch with your old ones (unless they did time, or something). In the long run you will thank them for this
2006-11-08 18:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by netslaveone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And all of your friends are going to be there every step of the way for you? i dont think so if your parents have a reason for doing it..and you dont say if the school your friends are going to is known to be rough or anything or if you have been in trouble so its hard to make a judgement im just going on my experience with my daughter . I actually gave her a choice to go with her friends or go to the school that was going to do something for her.She chose not to follow the "flock" and is aiming at what she wants in life not her friends who she can still see on weekends and she realises that you only need one good friend to get through life and she has a few good ones but shes not into groups or gangs.Maybe you need to have a good think about what is best for you and not your mates?....parents only want the best for their kids.
2006-11-08 19:08:26 · answer #5 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_of_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents aren't "EVIL" and you know it. You obviously have no idea what evil parents are like. Are you beaten, starved, molested, used, and ignored? Are you told 10 times a day how worthless and stupid you are? It's obvious your parents are sending you to a different school because they want to get you away from your so-called "friends" because they felt your best interests were at stake. Grow up! There are a lot of kids out there who would give anything for their parents to love them as much as yours obviously do.
2006-11-08 19:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by TruthSeeker 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know that it may not be easy to talk to your parents but I say talk to them so that you are heard or at least to someone who will make you and your problem noticeable to your parents. If it doesn't work maybe your parents are making this decision for a reason and you could always find or make new friends.
2006-11-08 19:06:38 · answer #7 · answered by Re15 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tough one. I went to a crappy high school which my parents knew was really substandard. I was totally alone, ostracized, and sidelined by these kids who had known each other since the first grade. They were very clubby, and I was never invited.
I never found out what to do to take control of my life, while I was a kid. I don't exactly see how you can...
Sorry. Peace.
2006-11-08 18:57:13 · answer #8 · answered by martino 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's really hard to let go of friends especially at your age. It's something thats hard to hear but eventually your going to graduate and your friends are going to all go in separate directions anyways. It's the truth. Try to keep your chin up although it feels like the end of the world. You may meet new friends and you may end up loving your new school.
2006-11-08 19:00:01 · answer #9 · answered by snomelt 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't make your parents evil...Maybe you've done somthing to upset them. Maybe your hanging around with the wrong crowd, doing things you're not suppose to be doing and slipping out at night?
You need to change what you're doing wrong to make things right.
2006-11-08 18:55:50 · answer #10 · answered by Betty Boop 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are there reasons for sending you to that particular school? Is is a specialized school? Were you having troubles in another school? Perhaps a little more information will help us figure it out? Good luck, anyway!!
2006-11-08 18:55:34 · answer #11 · answered by ladyw900ldriver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋