okay. this guy asked me out today. i said sure. does that make me his girlfriend if we're "going out". i view him as a friend, thats it right now. i said sure, which i guess is yes. should i going with him and see where it leads or leave him bc i dont have feelings for him? do i sound crazy? please no rude answers!
2006-11-08 10:52:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok.. you said yes so you should not just dump him that fast... it could and most likely will ruin your friendship.... go with him for a few weeks and you will know if you like him or not
2006-11-08 11:01:54 · answer #1 · answered by blonde brunette 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If a guy asked you out that means you are going out with him now. If you didnt like him and have feelings for him WHY would you have said yes to him. You better break it off quickly before you break his heart,,which im sure you will do anyways.He asked you out because he liked you more than a friend. Next time if someone asks you out and you dont like them please make sure you say no.
2006-11-08 18:56:54 · answer #2 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he ask you to a movie, or to be 'his girl'? Cuz there is a difference...
If you have no feelings for the dude, let him know. Nuthin worse, from the guys point of view, than to be led on.
2006-11-08 18:56:57 · answer #3 · answered by George Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not crazy, maybe you could call him and just talk with him about how your feeling and hopefully he will be happy to just leave things like they are with no hurt feelings. But you shouldn't be with someone who you don't really like because he will keep doing nice things for you and think more of the relationship then you do.
2006-11-08 18:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by angie_adie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your saying YES, doesn't mean that, you are his girlfriend at all.
It simply means that you are interested and like to see him apart and alone, quite somewhere. That is all. Remember you can always say NO as well. It is never late.
2006-11-08 18:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by dotab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-11-08 18:56:05 · answer #6 · answered by acierman2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him that you two are going out as friends and nothing more.
2006-11-08 18:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by JamaicanGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello
i would tell him you are only going out with him as friends first to see if it develops into something else.
xx
2006-11-08 19:18:26 · answer #8 · answered by *music* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u don't sound crazy.... don't hurt him, but don't play him.. it is confusing, but you did say yes.. so just be careful with him, let him down easy if ur gonna... but ur gonna have to make that decision hunn.. srry
2006-11-08 18:58:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋