The girl I love has pretty much rejected me after 2 years of loving each other. What did I not have to offer in the right way? I thought we were doing fine together, she says she wants me back now that she realizes what she lost. Can any females relate and help me out?
2006-11-08 10:47:31 · 7 answers · asked by michael a 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you know i think you shouldn't take her back. what if she does the same thing again?? it's just gonna hurt you even more. just move on. you'll eventually find someone that values you!
2006-11-08 10:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by Purple Tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is this girl and how old are you....sounds as tho' you're both teens or at most early 20's. I'd say she wanted to take a fling at some one else and when it didn't work out she ran back to you. If she was with you for 2 yrs there was a lot you had to offer in the right way......you need to decide whether you want her back considering she might do the same thing next time she gets bored with you.
2006-11-08 18:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by marpen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatley sometimes it takes a break up for one person to realize they made a mistake. She didnt realize how much she cared for you until you were no longer in her life. If it was meant to be then you will giver her a second chance. But you better make it clear to her that you arent playing games,,either she wants to be with you or she doesnt. Everyone makes mistakes and everyone deserves second chances. If she does it to you again,then dont take her back again. Sometimes love is a crazy thing.Its not easy. Work it all out with her and be happy.
2006-11-08 18:53:08 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh well ive been in that situation bfore
i was wiv someone and then we split up cuz of me i ended it basically and then in that space of not being wiv him i realised to my self that i really do love him and want to be wiv him so i got back in touch wiv him and now we r back togever we've been back togever for months now and im glad we gave it another go and were as happy as we were
i mean wiv me i just needed some space to think about do i really love him and is this the man i want to be wiv for the rest of my life
so what im saying wiv some women they do need a bit of space to think things through on there own
hope this helps
take care
2006-11-08 18:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by Katie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's anything like I used to be years ago, she may have dumped you temporarily so that she wouldn't feel guilty about going out with someone else. That or she's a codependent and noone else will accept her and you're her back up. Either way, go find someone else who isn't going to play those kind of head games with you.
2006-11-08 18:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by thezookeeper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a relashinship is likes a rubber band ou get closer and closer but one day you need to extent. After a few days of extending you will SPRING BACk together. Srryz if im wrong
2006-11-08 18:52:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful.. a guy did that to me.. She might have played you, but she might not.. I honestly don't know why people do these things.. all I have to say is.. BE CAREFUL!!
2006-11-08 18:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋