am i wrong for continuing the relationship?
2006-11-08 10:45:01 · 20 answers · asked by jgirl28juicy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
even though we are distant cousins our parents are making a big deal about it
what should we do because we really do have feelings for each other and would love to continue the relationship
2006-11-08 10:49:27 · update #1
It's completly legel, n it is goin back quite a few generations. It just depends how u feel about the relationship, I no sum1 hu is goin out wid there 1st cousin. continue it if u feel u want to/can! :-)
2006-11-08 10:47:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, not at all. It might be weird but anything past yur first cousin is Practiclly related ya know.I mean like a second cousin doesnt seem like much of a big deal and 7th or 8th cousin is SO FAR beyond the limit he practiclly isnt even family. ( i mean that in a good way)
2006-11-08 10:48:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How in the world could you trace your relationship to that many times removed? No, it is not a problem. Anything more distant than a 1st cousin is far enough removed genetically that any children you have would not be in danger of birth defects.
2006-11-08 10:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unless you're mentally challenged....with doing it. I mean, with it being your 7th or 8th...that's so far away that I don't believe that it's wrong especially when you didn't know it going into the relationship...I say go for it...If, however, there comes a day when you're having second thoughts, then you may need to stop to relieve yourself of any guilt. Good luck
2006-11-08 10:49:48 · answer #4 · answered by Betty Boop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, because there is so much distance between u and ur bf/distant cuz. ik i was thinkin the samething once but it really all comes down to u, there isnt really anything wrong wit it, but u may not feel right. or maybe u do i wouldnt personaly know cuz im not u but to answer ur question no it isnt wrong for continuing ur relationship.
2006-11-08 10:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by Tay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time hearing it, it seems like whoa we're cousins, but after awhile 7 or 8 will seem so far away and it won't even matter
2006-11-08 10:50:34 · answer #6 · answered by diamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a problem.
There aren't really that many links seperating *any* of us, no matter which country you're from -- only first cousins have a *slight* chance of making babies with genetic problems, anything beyond that is just fine -- legally, morally, and medically :)
2006-11-08 10:48:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're totally fine! You're cousin and you are far enough apart that it won't really effect you. There is no reason not to continue a relationship if you're far enough apart.
2006-11-08 10:50:28 · answer #8 · answered by beford95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely no. There is no reason why you can not continue the relationship, it is legal as far as I know in every state.
2006-11-08 10:50:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely no problem with this. Even if you got married and had children, the children would not have a higher chance of being disabled than any other couples children. This is not considered incest.
2006-11-08 10:48:02 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋