For Example well im 15 and taking care of my school work and when i get home i sleep for about half an hour and then i go to my nabors house and stay there till 7:00 as usual, But i forgot that she wanted me and my brothers to put clothes and clean the kitchen and so when i walked in the door getting ready to go to church she told me no and then started getting an atitude which pisses me off and then we were fighting.
2006-11-08 10:29:45 · 15 answers · asked by Nick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This happens at least once a week or maybe twice it depends
2006-11-08 10:31:48 · update #1
all this is easy to say but it is not easy to follow she automatically gets an atitude and does'nt want to talk things out all she does is yell.
2006-11-08 10:36:58 · update #2
she is also not a single parent and i have a memory problem its even hard for me to remember if i have homework
2006-11-08 10:39:28 · update #3
chill! that is nothing. all kids and parents get into fights.
me and my mom fight all the time but in the end we still love each other.
so since your about my age, its hormones that is rising up your attitude.
hormones will make you feel like no one understands you.
one second you will be sad, the next happy.
its normal....chill.
2006-11-08 10:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by [blahh] ™ 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
(nabors is neighbor's)
Because she relied on you to be mature and a young man since you're 15 and you let her down.
Just remember, if you don't have family, you don't have anybody.
Remember your house first, 'cus that's your headquarters, then go hang out and recreate - even when you're older and on your own. People that don't are the losers you hear about having bogus problems of all sorts, like no clean socks or no groceries or they forgot to pay the light bill.
2006-11-08 10:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by jam_please 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
If my Mom told me to do what your mom did. and she came in and it was not done I properly would had to pay for it for ever. Listen I am 43 years old just out of respect help your mom cuz u know she loves you and the reason u fight both are stress out. next time she wants to argue step back take a breath and leave for a miunte then come back and give her a hug and see how that works out.
2006-11-08 10:40:24 · answer #3 · answered by Dove4ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, the fact that you are 15 and can't spell neighbor frightens me. Secondly, think about all the work she has to do on a daily basis. You do not have much of a right to get angry since it is not HER fault you forgot. Perhaps she should put up a reminder notice on the fridge or something. Take the attitude down a notch--it's not easy to raise a teenager.
2006-11-08 10:34:29 · answer #4 · answered by Rain 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Give your mom a break--she's probably tired from working and feels underappreciated when she comes home and finds that you haven't done something she asked you to do. In all fairness, you're 15, so you may not even realize you're doing anything but being forgetful. Just try to remember next time and apologize for forgetting. She works hard to be a mom; just have patience and try to talk to her, rather than give attitude back.
2006-11-08 10:32:34 · answer #5 · answered by carmellie 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Teenagers get in fights with their parents alot, parents always expect us to live up to their standards or be the perfect angels we were when we were children and it takes them awhile to come to term whith the fact that, that's not true.
2006-11-08 10:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by Crisscross 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your mom is working extremely hard to put a roof over you and your bother. i suppose your mom is also a "single mother" raising to teenage boys. which is not an easy thing to do. be a man and help your mom out and listen to her. don't make her life a living hell.
2006-11-08 10:34:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well hon...first of all your only 15...you shouldnt be argueing with your mom.....we dont like to do things at that age...but shes trying to teach you responsibilities.....god don't like ugly and your suppose to respect...even if you dont want to hear it......when your 18 and move out then you can do what you want....but for now respect your mama.....
2006-11-08 11:24:22 · answer #8 · answered by mspain719 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AT 15 YOU THINKS YOU REALLY KNOW WHAT BEST FOR YOU--YOU DON'T..
A REBELLING TIME IS 15 AND 16.
ONLY YOU CAN LOSE....
YOUR MOM HAS BEEN THERE DONE THAT AND KNOWS..
ASK YOU FRIENS PARENTS-THEN ASK YOUR FRIENDS.
THEY GET THE SAME TREATMENT--
SO IS IT YOUR MOM AND ALL PARENTS WRONG OR IS IT YOU---AND YOUTH WHO DON'T KNOW DIDDLE YET?
A WISE PERSON KNOWS--
AGE IS WASTED ON YOUTH.
2006-11-08 10:39:04 · answer #9 · answered by cork 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you should try to communicate with her more often and try to understand her and tell her to at least try to understand you well that's all I've got hope it works.
2006-11-08 10:34:21 · answer #10 · answered by larry b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋