My ex dumped me through email a month ago. She has always had problems expressing her emotions. She is in therapy because her father passed away 4 months ago and she has low self-esteem. I think she felt bad because she asked me not to hate her and said she thought we had good potential, but the timing of everything sucked because of her. She said she really hoped we could be friends. And I felt bad becuase I knew from past relationships that I would need time to get over her before I could be friends. I do not talk to any of my exes, but I always argued with them and this ex and I never fought! So I emailed her last week to apologize for any discomfort I may have caused in her complicated life. I told her that I hoped we could eventually talk every now and then. Today I sent her a txt saying I hope her day was going well. I wanted her to know that I am there if she needs somebody 2 talk to. I have not heard anything from her so has she moved on and should I move on?
2006-11-08 10:07:43 · 5 answers · asked by cds1666 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give it a couple days before you make a decision. she may not have recieved your message or may be too busy to reply. just don't let things go on too long before you write it off.
2006-11-08 10:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by Evan B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.. move on. =T i know it's hard, and u initially do care for her well being..but she broke it off w/ you cuz she needs to get thru it in her own way.. .without you. so although u do care and want to keep reaching out and help her, it may actually be worse. i think u did what u could, which was nice enough. just let her know u are there if she needs to talk, but u need to move on too. remember, the stronger, confident, healthier, and happier people you are, the better partner you will make to someone else. and perhaps, if one day u DO get back together, at least u will be in a Healthy emotional state, not still wondering this or that. u need to be strong, and Positive, just as she needs to do to get thru her situations. good luck
2006-11-08 10:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is she? e-mail? kinda weird but..ok
If she hasnt told you in person, that means shes unsure. Usually when things like that happens with no "direct" contact, the other person isnt sure on what to do. She might not want to loose you, but she knows shes not going to be there for you the way you want her to. So right now, shes kinda 50/50 on the whole thing. Just move on, date other girls but dont lose contact with her. Eventually she'll call you again and ask to hang out. If that is the case, just take it slow and start again at the begining. No one knows what the future holds, but you should never blow it off with anyone for something like that.
2006-11-08 10:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by JessyG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loosing a parent is really hard . i know from experience. she needs time to be alone and deal with the changes in her life. you should be there for her. i don't think you should move on, you should just give her the time she needs.
2006-11-08 10:12:44 · answer #4 · answered by jungle cheeks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude she dumped you via e mail? thats just f*cked up! you really looking for punishment. YO, LOSE HER LIKE YOU DON'T CARE JUST LIKE SEE DID TO YOU! IF YOU DON'T JUST TELL HER TO KICK YOU IN THE BALLS A FEW TIMES
2006-11-08 10:18:11 · answer #5 · answered by NOT IN USE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋