When you brake up with someone u love because .........well your reason does it suck to see them with another girl??????.....or is it just me. When i saw my ex with another girl it felt like a punch in the stomach because i still like him and if he wasnt his nasty self none of this would have happend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What do u think does it fell like a punch in the stomach 2 see your ex with another girl when u both have feeling 4 each other?
serious awnsers only please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-08 10:04:46 · 15 answers · asked by Emily Janssen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it not only feels like a punch... i always feel like i just got run over. the pain is more than i can handle! so advise... hot chocolate and a chick-flick!!!!!! it always helps
2006-11-08 10:07:32 · answer #1 · answered by blonde brunette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a very good observation on your part. Also of counselors will ask a married couple the same question, the truth is, if you can think of your special someone with another person, and it does not bother you, the the relationship is over, it it does bother you, then there are still feelings of love or friendship that need to be taken care of before any one moves on. I think you still have STRONG feelings for him, question is, does he for you? Only one way to find out.
2006-11-08 10:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. SmartyPants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it sucks seeing your ex with someone new but in time you will get over it. Just focus on wy the two of you broke up in the first place. There is usually a good reason why ppl break up.
2006-11-08 10:07:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah, it really sucks. More like a slap in the face actually. But if he was nasty to you just remember the relationship wasn't worth it. I'm sure it will take you awhile to get over it, good luck.
2006-11-08 10:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by jonesin_am 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural to feel a little jaded when you see a former boyfriend or girlfriend with someone else, just like it probably won't make them feel all that great when they see you with someone else. It's best to suck it up and don't let it bother you. You're not together for a reason. Be true to yourself.
2006-11-08 10:07:24 · answer #5 · answered by captainmcsorley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must say, I hated seeing my ex with his new wife.The bastard was screwing her while we were 2gether and he tried to act as if he wasn't with her.Little did he know, I HAD ME SOMEONE NEW TOO. He tried to get mad and attack me. Then after a few years had gone by he calls and says he wants my son to be in the wedding. I wanted to tear his face off! How could you play me like that? After I took care of his ugly, bird leg behind. It was like he had spat a glob of phlegm in my face. I did not want him. It was the principle of the matter. Why did he have to lie? I had moved on. I must say life deals you a lot of bad hands in the game of poker. Then life deals you the one hand and the game gets instantly better to where you win the game. All in all I didn't want him back, it was the point of him lying to get some of my kitty kat! LoL.
2006-11-08 10:20:30 · answer #6 · answered by cutiestorm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello!!! isn't only you. myself too, but i guess that is because you still love him... <3 i know than in to beginning is difficult, but you need to try to think in other thinks, 4 example, mmm your school, at home. your pet,,, i dont know.... but answer your question, yes you fell a punch in the stomach!!! :'(
i am sorry if you cant understand my words!!!
2006-11-08 10:15:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its pathetic infact i love my girl ill probably kill myself if i ever see her wid another guy. we've been out 2 yrs now and she's a part of me.
In clear terms its as if a part of you is wid someone else.
Dont worry life's tough but these tough moments make u stronger
2006-11-08 10:08:51 · answer #8 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i liked this guy once and it hurt when he was with another guy, but ive never felt it with someone i loved becuase the only guy ive ever loved im lucky to say im still with. i hope all gets better for you and time heals wounds. or so they say, idk
i just hope it gets better.
2006-11-08 10:07:46 · answer #9 · answered by Jordan Alexis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really cared about you. he wouldn't be with some one else.
And you are better of with out him. He is a cheater,
You can do better.
You will get over this and find a guy who will respect you and not cheat.
2006-11-08 10:09:01 · answer #10 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋