I never see my boy friend he goes to a school in IL. and I go to school in IN. I don't even talk to him on the phone very often. I love him so much but I never ever see him. Should I stay with him or break up with him?
2006-11-08 10:03:32 · 25 answers · asked by Mickala S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
break up with him and go with me
2006-11-08 10:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by oldjr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, If you love him and you have showed him that you do but never talk then that is hard. I would say that most long distance relationships dont work and if you never talk to him on the phone or never talk to him or see him it most likly wont work and you never know what he could be doing behind your back if i were you I would take a break maybe untill be comes home or just be friends.
2006-11-08 18:06:55 · answer #2 · answered by srh077 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i live in IL, sucks for him that he goes to school in this wack *** state, but yea I say break up with him b/c I tried the whole long distance thing with my boyfriend and it just DOESNT work. Keep your head up and Im sure things will work out for the best
2006-11-08 18:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by aaaah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly do you love about I guy you see less than the mailman? He's probably not a bad guy, but he's not even making time for a phone call. Find someone closer to home.
2006-11-08 18:09:45 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe, theres love between you two and Im sure he feels the same. I would end this relationship but ofcourse stay in touch with him. Be strong and keep ur head high. You are young and their are many more oppurtunities to have someone special like him. I hope this helped you.
2006-11-08 18:12:26 · answer #5 · answered by old 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on its just a hardship u guys are facing. Infact take it as a test of your relation that if you guys over come this and are still together it surely is a relation that's gonna be really special. And come on if the guy makes you feel good why do u wanna leave him u love him rite so give your love a chance atleast
2006-11-08 18:06:32 · answer #6 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say break up only because the fact that i had a long distance relationship, and it didn't work out, i still loved him dearly and cried after we broke up, we talk now and are friends, he tells me about his sex life i talk about my lack there of :) We are going to meet when we're older for a "date" lol
2006-11-08 18:07:00 · answer #7 · answered by My dad ate my homework 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no people, its a long distance relationship, you know what that means we're going to have to actually work for our relationship to work......
No but seriously, log distance relationships take time, commitment,work, and most importantly trust. You love him stay with him. It's like that song..."the end will justify the pain it took to get us there..."
2006-11-08 18:11:50 · answer #8 · answered by CHRIS S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should talk. u should b d 1 to call and ask what's going on. he probably have another gf, OR he probably bcame succesful in school and don't have anytime 2 spare. something might have happened 2 him and is 2 afraid 2 call u. u should talk 2 him
2006-11-08 18:07:31 · answer #9 · answered by Charlene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,because....
1.) You never see him
2.) He could be cheating on you & you wouldn't know it!!
3.) You don't keep in touch,at all.
The truth here is that you both should just be pen-pal friends.
Find someone that goes to your school,to date,real relationships
are better. (plus it's easier to find out if he's cheating on you,and keep in touch daily)
Good Luck-
2006-11-08 18:17:51 · answer #10 · answered by Jeremy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer to that question, there is always time to get together again after school is over, hey if it is meant to be it will work out then too.
2006-11-08 18:06:36 · answer #11 · answered by outdoors 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋