im getting married and im scared?

Answer 1

That's cute so long as you're not doubting marrying him. Get everything done as much in advance as possible. Then you won't be stressed and you won't be as scared. Relax and enjoy your moment in the spotlight!

Answer 2

Don't be scared. It will be the best day of your life. I'm sure everything is going to look beautiful. I have only been married two months, and I remember being worried about walking down the aisle. When the doors where opened for my dad and I to walk, it seemed like to was no big deal. Everyone said I looked so relaxed. If you are scared maybe you should go to the doctor and get something that will help you calm your nerves. Just a suggestions!

Answer 3

Scared is good. It means you realize that this is a serious decision and are sincere about the vows you will take. Any reasonable person would be scared. So think through everything carefully and make sure you are 110% committed to being and staying married to your intended...and then, as they say in steeplechasing, throw your heart over the fence and follow it.

best wishes,
cryllie

Answer 4

well, marriage is a big step and being scared is a normal reaction. the real questions are: are you in love, do you like this person, and is this gonna last? im getting married next month and i know every possible doubt has ran marathons through my mind, yet in the end I know that when i look into my baby's eyes, there is no other. what do you feel?

Answer 5

You're the only one who can determine what you're scared of. Very difficult to help you if you don't tell us why you're scared. Like are you a virgin? Are you not sure about getting married and giving up all your freedom? Are you in love with someone else? Are you a male or a female?

Answer 6

Being scared is just a sign of being nervous of wha you can expect. it is normal. I got scared 2 weeks before my wedding. But it was because I knew I was taking a big step in life, but I knew my family would be there and my husband (now). So I got over it once I said "I do". After that, everything was gravy. The dance and all was fun.

Answer 7

You have a right to be scared .
I was married for 23 years and your spouse can change into a complete stranger. Mine did .
She went from a well built ,sexy and caring wife to a 300 pound ,mean bi-polar mess that ended up being a danger to me .
Its ok to be scared .Most marriages don`t last more than 10 years.(50%) and 80% of second marriages fail after 5 years.
Good luck and stay in love.

Answer 8

Don't worry its gonna be all right. Just think "Im the luckiest girl in the world. I am about to marry the greatest guy in the world who loves me with all his heart." The first year is tough but don't worry things will go smoothly after that.

Answer 9

what is it that you are scared of??
are you not sure about the committment you are about to make?concerned about ""the wedding night""??
worried about how everything is going to go on the day?
How long have you & your fiance been together? how old are you?
lots of people do have concerns before the wedding; are you putting too much focus on the ""Wedding"" & not thinking about the actual marriage?? the wedding cereamony is really only a step along life's pathway - whereas the ""marriage"" consitutes a big part of that path
you really do need to sit down with your fiance & discuss these things with him & maybe even go to some pre-marital counselling to help you clarify your thoughts.
depending on when your wedding is scheduled for it may even be advisable to postpone it for a while until you feel more comfortable about things - like if it is to happen soon

TAKE CARE - be true to yourself

Answer 10

When are you getting married? What are you scared about?