My BF and I just broke up, only he sent me an e-mail doing it. this is what he sent me:
Its clear to me that this really isn't working. Neither one
of us is happy. I personally am just in an un-happy time of sorts.
You are definatley unhappy as a result of me and my unhappiness. The sad thing is that I really don't know what to do about it. Honestly I don't think there is anything we can or should do. I'm sorry for hurting you, but we just can't do this anymore. Maybe some other time, but right now its just
not right. I'll talk to you later, but I think we should stop talking, at
least for a while anyways. Ok now I am really done. I'll give you a call when I get a chance, at least before work.
We have been together for 6mo almost 7. This isn't exactly out of nowhere but damn!
How do I cope with this?.... I really loved him with my whole heart.
We are in our mid 20's the e-mail thing reminds me of highschool.
2006-11-08 10:00:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol. sounds somewhat firmiliar to me. one can't give advise unless they know the issues and why you broke up, etc. but,
i would just treat the person like a light bulb. turn it off and leave.
obviously they couldn't respect you and the relationship enough to stick around. so, accept it and bounce. it's not worth hurting yourself over.
people have told me that you should just move on and leave it. etc. i know it doesn't mean anything when i say it. it didnt mean anything to me when they said it. but if you sit there and decide you're not going to let that person be a part of your life. seroiusly make that conviction, then it'll all hurt less. that's what i've done.
realize that you seriously can do better.
sometimes people are worth waiting for, chasing, etc. but that's something you're going to have to decide for yourself. i know men who are married now who only stayed in the girlfriend boyfriend relationships with their wives because the wives fought hard for them. othertimes people aren't worth fighting for or it doesn't make a difference at all. sit down, weigh the pros and cons. ask yourself the questions you want to know the answers to.
2006-11-08 10:07:06 · answer #1 · answered by dejiko316 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just find someone that can actually talk to you anyway. Before you said how old you guys were I was thinking he was probably around 15 or 16. That says something right there. 7 months isn't that long, move on, and find someone that's right for you.
2006-11-08 10:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by dil7827 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you need to talk to him face to face. Trying to get closure over an email is not gonna cut it. If you talk to him face to face, you guys might actually find a way to work things out, if not atleast you would have been an adult about it and talked to him because yes Email is definitely highschool. He probably just did that because he was nervous though. Good luck though :)
2006-11-08 10:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by aaaah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Females are more sensitive than males, that you must know. Anyways, he might come back to you, but he might not. Ask yourself: is he worth it? right now, of course you would say yes, but think about it, he's not the ONLY guy on the planet, and there are plenty of fantastic people out there.
btw, my bf dumped me like 3 times, but he always begged to come back each time....so i wouldn't worry about it too much unless he's serious. Just remember, he would come back only if it was meant to be, if he doesn't, OH WELL, it's time to move on. =) and very unfortunate of him, he LOST you.
2006-11-08 10:06:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I don't know the situation very well, but it seems to me if he wrote an e-mail like that he cound't have been that understanding of a guy. Just take some time on your own and get support from your family, you will get over it and find someone else.
2006-11-08 10:05:52 · answer #5 · answered by Tyson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, it's hard at the beginning but eventually you'll get over him and if it's really not working and he's not happy, give it time and things will or won't work out and on your way you go, just don't try and figure him out or look for him.
2006-11-08 10:06:28 · answer #6 · answered by rfseventeen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya that is way gay that he wrote you an e-mail.. but what can you do.. he is gone, you are left with a broken heart... well you might as well go out, find a new guy and try to mend your heart... it does help.. even if you dont want it to be serious. your boyfriend breaking up with you just means that you were way too good for him anyways!
2006-11-08 10:05:43 · answer #7 · answered by blonde brunette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
e mail??? u broke up with u over the e mail??? OMG, even a damn text was better than an e mail! if i were u, i would have called him, and curse the sh!t out of him. he went just beyond low, damn!
2006-11-08 10:05:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well at least he had the balls to say why he wants to end everything...at least he wasn't insensitive...although it should have been said in person...but if he did it that way he would probably have said stuff he didn't mean or wanted to say to maybe it's better this way...
2006-11-08 10:03:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
holt shite i thought you were in highschool for a sec there, that was really cheap, but if you need chocolate, i'll go get you some *hands her internet chocolate*
2006-11-08 10:03:26 · answer #10 · answered by My dad ate my homework 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋