okay so he like talks to her a lot more then me and she always flirts w/ him (even though she dosent like him) but he seems to like her, how do i talk to him without saying something stupid, and what should we talk about like he always finds things to talk about wiht my friend, and so does she, but i like dont have enough confidence talk to him about the stuff i usually would with my other friends....please do not say "be yourself, because i can't!! wait but how do i act be myself.
2006-11-08 09:57:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was the same way as you one time, but i just went to him and told him how i felt because life is way to short to hold back on things like that. oh yeah and we are to gether now and have been for 1 year and 9 months
2006-11-08 10:02:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about this - you put all of this in perspective, and relax?
'Cause you have a crush on the guy, but you don't really know him (so far, you haven't been able to talk to him). Crushes are a lot of fun (that wonderful, fluttery feeling), but once you got to know him, who knows how you'd feel about him?
What you do know (so far) is that he seems to prefer your friend to you. In a way, this is good news - there's no reason to worry about whether you're impressing him or not. His attention is elsewhere, so no harm in talking to him.
The issue isn't whether you're yourself or not (who else are you supposed to be?), but who you are, and who he is, and whether or not you still like him once you know who he is - a thing you'll never figure out without talking to him.
The nice thing about being in the "nothing to lose" situation - which is where you are - is that... you have nothing to lose. Might as well talk to him. Might as well get to know him better. While his attention is on your friend (much less intimidating for you). Good luck!
2006-11-08 18:07:08 · answer #2 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, she's playing with your guy you like, does she know you like him. Being natural is the best thing talk him like you would with other friends. Dont't fake you who u are just because your interested in him. Also, the friend isn't real and immature!!
2006-11-08 18:07:42 · answer #3 · answered by ojkwe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you push your self towards him, he will either take it as you are easy or he may not like the pushing. If he wants to talk to you he will. He knows you are there , he just isn't ready to talk to you yet.
2006-11-08 18:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would give to your friend and get a new one.
2006-11-08 18:01:34 · answer #5 · answered by djsanner@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and ask him to be honest.
2006-11-08 18:03:31 · answer #6 · answered by JamaicanGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Threesome!
2006-11-08 17:58:58 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋