There's a man in our social club who keeps coming on to me. He's always saying things like, "There's my green-eyed blonde.", and calling me sexy and says if I ever want some variety in life to let him know. I can't stand the way he runs his eyes over me. Yuck! So far I have just walked away from him, unsmiling. But, it's really getting on my nerves. Should I tell my husband or is there another way you can suggest I handle this? I don't want any trouble and there would be if my husband finds out. He would prob. pummel this guy. The guy would prob. say he's just joking but, I don't like it and enough is enough. What should I do?
2006-11-08 09:41:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be stern about everything you tell him, especially when you tell him to "F" off. Let him know ahead of time that you are not the one to mess with, he has no chance in hell, that you are happily married and that you have no problem telling your husband about this man's antics. And don't worry about causing any trouble because this guy is disrespectful and deserves nothing but trouble.
2006-11-08 09:46:49 · answer #1 · answered by wrtrchk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suppose you must NOT have kids till you think larger approximately your courting and your husband. Children (special although they're) are an excessively massive stress on a courting. If there are any cracks, the strain of getting a baby will cut up them huge open if you're each no longer one hundred% into the connection. Children are very tough paintings - no longer the hard work - that's the effortless facet. The never-ending nights of little or no sleep are the toughest facet. I'm concerned approximately your husband. He sounds very egocentric, which isn't a well pleasant for both a father or husband. I realize it is tough to do; however speak to him approximately it. If he simply are not able to carry himself to experience your delight (like so much guys do) then probably he isn't the proper guy for you. If you do not brain getting any sexual delight from your courting then pass forward and stick with him. That generally is a lonely avenue being in a courting while you do not think cherished. Again, do NOT suppose that having a baby will magically carry you in combination.
2016-09-01 09:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate guys like that. Be stern and firm with him that you do not "desire" him. I don't think you should tell your husband just yet but let that guy know that you mean business. You will feel much better if you handle the situation yourself. Good Luck with this.
ps - maybe the next time that you tell him NO you could crack him in the nuts. that would probably get thru to him
2006-11-08 09:47:51 · answer #3 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly...I would say to tell your husband. Or inform the guy if he doesn't stop you're going to inform the police. It seems border-line stalking to me.
2006-11-08 09:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by amcdaniel06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell the guy that you aren't interested and hopefully he will back off. If he continues to do it then, tell your hubby
2006-11-08 09:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by cee cee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋