whats she doing? and what should i do??

Question

my bf dumped me on ma bday, becos he sed of age, but i l8r found out it wos because he had feelings for ma big sis, fine fair do's, but i lately found out they may b seeing each ova, i am not sure, ye me n him didnt do much, but what was he expecting? for me to jump in2 bed wit him afta 2mnths?? but still, he is still ma ex? i dunt want them to, cos i av helped ma sista loads over the past few yrs n i cudnt put into wrds, but if i cud tell ya, ud kno it were alot! n i wud feel like she were bein disloyal n she didnt luv me, i sed if she did i wud neva tlk to her agen, what shud i do? i am vry confused, plz help me!!!! n plus i feel like if hes done it to me, will he do it to her? plzz help!!!

Answer 1

Perhaps he's gone to your sister because she's easier to understand.

Answer 2

It sounds like you are better off without him - and though that may sound unsympathetic, I'm afraid Life is like that sometimes and it's better for me to be straight with you than to disguise the truth.

There will be a nicer person out there who will be better for you, you just haven't found him yet. You will probably look back on this in the future and be glad you found out what this lad was like before you got into a deeper relationship with him.

And yes - it sounds like he could do the same thing to your sister. Don't be too quick to judge your sister as you may not know what he has said to her about the ending of your relationship with him - if you have got on well with her in the past, give her the benefit of the doubt now. Don't discard her friendship lightly on account of the behaviour of your former boyfriend who doesn't sound too trustworthy. It's always worth placing a high value on family freindships.

And, yes, as others have said - you would communicate more effectively if you avoided text-speak when you write. No offence intended - just trying to help.

Answer 3

You should forget about the both of them, if even your own sister is going to do the dirty on you she's not worth having around. I can completely trust my sister & I know she could say the same for me & I would never do such a thing to her no matter how long she's been going out with a guy or how much I felt for that guy because my sister would always mean more.

Answer 4

what a tosser! and she shouldnt touch him with a barge pole. its bad enough when so called friends do it, but family should never ever do that. you should feel proud you dint jump into bed cos you'd just be another notch now, he sounds like an utter ****. what has your sister said about this? and yeah, if he's done it to you then he can do it to her, come on,. dumps you on your birthday and isnt even man enough to even tell you the truth? and you sister should know this, so if she does go ahead then she'll deserve everything she gets from him. you tho, hold your head high.

Answer 5

I sure wouldn't like a sister that stole my boyfriend, but it ttakes 2 to cheat. Find someone that will put you first. Eventually he'll cheat on her, and you can just show no sympathy at all, that way you'll be even with her. In other words, nothing you can do but move on with your life.

Answer 6

First thing is to be able to correctly write the mother language a hell of a lot better than you do
I'm not perfect but I'm sure mine is more understandable

Answer 7

Stop worrying about boys and get an education. Speak better English and keep your legs closed.

Answer 8

get an education, learn how to spell. good guys generally like girls who have some grasp of the language they speak.

Answer 9

Am I Bothered ,you sound like Catherine Tate's mate !

Answer 10

learn to write proper english n keep ur legs closed till ur ready.