I am young, and some say attractive. But am i worth more than a man who has done nothing but hurt me since i have known him? He cheated on me, Lied about various things, broke numerous promises, and hurt me emotionally more times i can count.
So here it is i dnt love him, i care for him, i dnt wnt him back, but am hurt he has another girl, it would have never worked this i know, so why do i feel hurt?
2006-11-08 09:18:10 · 17 answers · asked by choooo choooo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
everyone is worth more than a cheating lying snake!! Your probably hurt because not only are you asking yourself how could he do that to me..but why did i let him do that to me..it was a blow to your self esteem..dont let it get you down..if you know how good of a person you are then you should know that you can and will find better than him..
2006-11-08 09:23:26 · answer #1 · answered by torrescy21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have children, you should not put up with this. You deserve a lot more than that.
I'm guessing you feel hurt because you feel like you failed on this relationship. Like you could have done something to keep him from cheating. Any man (or woman) that cheats is completely to blame for his own actions. You should in no way feel responsible. And you should actually feel sorry for him that he is incapableof having a fulfilling relationship.
2006-11-08 09:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by ssumner118 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that depends.
If you are fat or ugly or act like a b itch then you should get used to that treatment because that is the type of treatment you will get and deserve.
If you are not, then you don't deserve that treatment and the pain will pass in time. It is not love you will feel is lost, but the loss to another girl and the insecurity that that creates. Our minds tend to reach out and create feelings of desire for the familiar, you are/were used to him. It isn't longing, or love you will feel when you miss him, it will be your mind playing tricks on you.
2006-11-08 09:23:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are hurt, because you have invested time into a relationship that wasn't going anywhere. No one wants to feel like they have wasted their time with someone. Now he has moved on to someone else, and you're worried that he may treat that person much better than you. It hurts to know that you have given your all, but he has given his all to someone else.
2006-11-08 09:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by Linda J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are worth more than that!!! You feel hurt because you have spent part of your life with him...but the pain is not worth being hurt and crushed
2006-11-08 09:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by hottiemama1983 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well a guy like this is a piece of shi* so you're definetly better than him but still...i hope you're not one of those girls that like to get involved in relationships where the man does all the bad stuff and you just forgive him... if you continue like that some people may lose some of the respect they have for you.
2006-11-08 09:23:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u are so much better the same thing happened to me and u are not a toy to be played wit, u should let him go and find a guy who is honest and doesnt cheat i know exactly how u feel and it hurts!!!!!!!
2006-11-08 09:26:25 · answer #7 · answered by Babygrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes dump him. I'll sum it up
The best indication of future behavior is past behavior.
Thats it point blank and period, dump him and find better. You deserve it!!
You feel hurt, because your trust was betrayed. Unfortunately it happens to us all.
2006-11-08 09:30:25 · answer #8 · answered by imrtl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one you are more then that he should not have done that to you. and dont get me wrong you do love him. you may say you dont but you do i can tell i had a guy just like that his name was josh and he still loves me and i love him and also josh has a girlfriend named amy and she is pregnent an dso am i
2006-11-08 09:24:37 · answer #9 · answered by puppyluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because to some degree you trusted this guy. Don't worry about him though, you are better off wiithout him and his hurtfull ways. Keep your head up and good luck in finding a new guy
2006-11-08 09:22:47 · answer #10 · answered by joker:P 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋