how should I tell my boyfriend hes a bad kisser?

Question

My boyfirend sucks at kissing I want to tell him but i just don't want to hurt his feelings.

Answer 1

Dont tell him teach him!!

Answer 2

DON'T tell him he sucks at kissing even gently. Try new kissing styles soft and slow and passionate with warmth. Try different angles to your kiss and PRACTICE> You didn't start out as the best kisser in the world I promise your boyfriend is just sweetly naive. Practice brought you to the level your at. So ask him to try some things different, like what was above. Try things out and then if it doesn't get better, give him little tips in the form of "I had this dream where you kissed me like...want to try it?" or "What if we try something new?' Add some nice tasty lip gloss and trust me he'll fall over with the joy of getting to practice with you.

Answer 3

You don't have to tell him that he's a bad kisser. You can take control and SHOW him the way that you like to be kissed. If he tries to take more control because you are, just say that you want to show him something in a flirty kind of way so he doesn't get offended.

Answer 4

okay since he is your boyfriend he should have the trust that you can tell him the truth. because in my opinion a good relationship is based on honesty and trust. in this case your falling on the honesty part. just go to him and say"baby, look not to be mean or anything but your kissing isnt really all that romantic. i still enjoy kissing you but not as much." try getting so close to him when you guys kiss that if you put a magazine between you two it wont fall. let him put his arms around your waiste and grip it kind of tightly. then let him run his hands up and down your back gently. see if that works.

Answer 5

Approach it like this: say you want to try something new and ask if he's willing to experiment a little. That way, he thinks that he's trying new things and having a really good time while you are actually teaching him how to kiss better. Afterwards, talk about what you liked, and maybe he'll listen and change accordingly.

Answer 6

Words are going to hurt his feelings. Simply tell him that you'd like to try something new: put a spoonful of ice cream in your mouth and share. He'll learn how you want to be kissed pretty quickly, if you enjoy the ice cream together.

Answer 7

I've been in the same situation. Do not tell him!! That would be awful. Can you even imagine how he would feel? Instead, the next time you kiss, SHOW him how you like to kiss. Remember, practice makes perfect. :) Good luck!

Answer 8

You don't have to hurt his feelings. You can simply take the initiative and teach him how to do it the way you like it. Guys are always open to learning more about matters of that sort. Remember to tell him that you'd simply like to show him what type of kiss turns you on and proceed to show him. It seems that you like him so simply teach him your technique.

Answer 9

oh my god!!! To me that is the worst being with somebody that does not know how to kiss. I'm sleeping with this one guy and he doesnt like to kiss at all, before we would and he did not know how to kiss, so i told him that he doesn't like to kiss because he doesn't know how to, but i told him that if he wants to continue doing me than he needs to learn and i will teach him. But just tell him the truth and tell him that u will teach him how too.

Answer 10

well if hes a bad kisser, wow but listen it takes time for most and some are great at it. if hes had girlfriends and if so ask him how they rate him as a kisser.

Answer 11

Yea teach him, dont tell him anything that would make him feel stupid...just tell him "how about we try it like this" lol Or somethin similar to that. Good luck :)