Ok these two girls are best friends and they both like me and i like both of them to. they said if i pick another one they will be super sad. and i like them both alot. Witch one do i pick?
2006-11-08 09:14:08 · 13 answers · asked by Marcus. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't.
Take one for the team and just be friends with both.
If you date one, then the girls wont be friends.
Then when you break up, no one will be friends....
2006-11-08 09:16:30 · answer #1 · answered by Vetala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. Not at the moment anyway. If you like both of them a lot and don't want to hurt them or affect their friendship, give the situation some time to cool down and see what happens. It won't kill you to wait a couple of weeks or a month or whatever seems appropriate. One of them will likely start dating someone else and you'll be free to date the other, or you might meet someone else and decide to steer clear of the situation altogether. There's no reason to rush into making a decision that could ruin friendships and cause stress. Just tell them you're chilling for a bit and need some space. Taking some time is usually the best answer in a case like this.
2006-11-08 09:20:32 · answer #2 · answered by Essmi d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't pick one over the other. You tell them both that it would be impossible for you to choose, as you like them both equally, and if they were truly best friends, they wouldn't ask you to choose. Keep them both as friends and don't favor one over the other. Good luck!
2006-11-08 09:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't decide which one you like more, then you should just keep talking to them and getting to know them better. Because you will eventually figure out the right one for you. If you can't pick between them, then they don't stand out and they aren't the right girl for you anways. As far as the girl you should pick, you should just know. Hope this helps.
2006-11-08 09:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by n_golden10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask if they wanna be a 3 some most girls usually wont so if they dont wanna dont go out with either they'll be heart broken and mad @ each other and u might even ruin there relastion ship and its beter to have friends than bf's and its not allway bout u so let the girls decied and man, u must be HOTT if u got two bff's fightin' over ya either that or there'ye fat pigs lol na, let them chose
2006-11-08 09:17:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old r u? Sounds like Jr hi or hi school - Who do you like? Do you even like either one? They will get over it eventually. Actually if they are friends they will want the best for each other. So they would be happy for the other one and understand that you like who you like and can't help it.
2006-11-08 09:25:36 · answer #6 · answered by KahneDame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude.... if you care for these 2 at all.. don't go out with either one !!... keep the friendship you have with them because... once you engage in a relationship with one, then the friendship of the one left out leaves both... then IF the relationship you engage in ends.... then you have lost both of your friends... is that a risk you are willing to take ??..... personally, not me... good friends are hard to come by these days.
2006-11-08 09:17:51 · answer #7 · answered by ludwigkicker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which ever one will let you get in her pants the fastest. Because sooner or later (probably sooner) she will dump you & move on to screwing with another guys head.
2006-11-08 09:17:41 · answer #8 · answered by Fitz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell one of them,but at nights,sneak out with the one truly destined to be your girl. but until you pick one,get close to them.the one who tells you her darkest secret first is the one for you.
2006-11-08 09:17:54 · answer #9 · answered by madison a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose both of them
2006-11-08 09:18:44 · answer #10 · answered by mnayr22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋