I swear.. men.. why are they so different?

Question

I have a bf and I feel like killing him.. He never thinks he does nothing wrong. But, he does. I don't understand why most men all ages never grow up. I really care for him.. just that I get sooooo frustrated because men are so different from women. Why don't they ever grow up? I just don't know how people can get married. The bulllsh** of having a bf is hard.. but marriage? It seems impossible with the men these days!
Ya, I am only 21 and my bf is 25. He has a child from another woman might i add. Why are they such dogs? Sorry guys. I just don't understand... haha.

Answer 1

You're just with the wrong guy. Not all of us are like that.

Don't be bitter. It's NOT sexy.

Men are different from girls and piss off you girls just like you piss off us men. We're made different. Even our brains are slightly different porportionally in certain parts. We use different proportions of hormones, heck even have difference in anatomy!

At 25 guys are at that verge. Usually they start getting really serious now and calm down a bit. The process finishes at about 30. It's a general statement, as some guys will NEVER grow up, just like some girls NEVER grow out of the twinkly I'm a princess superstar singer poet.

The fact that he's already a dad, and not married means that he maybe naturally inclined toward irresponsible and unstable childish behavior. You sure picked him good. If you are guaging the rest of our brothers by this, I can surely say that you are misguided and we are MOSTLY not like that. You got a bad one. Arrogant (isn't ever wrong), irresponsible (got a kid), @$$hole. We're not THAT different from women. You picked up a piece of sh!t.

Answer 2

I see it too and im a guy. I only see it when I step back and look at the big picture though or in the faces of girls what might be watching some of the stuff I do with my friends. I dont know exactly why though thats seems like just the way it is.

Answer 3

so he won't heel for you , Hm-mm , he just won't do anything you've tough him , bad man , have you try-ed swatting him on the nose with a rolled up newspaper ...

you know I think a relationship should be two people with like minds , not one dominate and one submissive , unless you are concisely reversing rolls , its more about being playful , love is not the good times , but how you treat each other during the bad times , don't try to change another person to make them fit a mold , is there a reason you picked this guy besides wanting to change him ...

Answer 4

OMG I know!! Aren't guys SO stuck up and selfish! My first crush liked me back, but then he dated my sister (same age, not twins) to get to me! How stupid is that!? After my sister found out, he asked all his friends to ask me for him! What a scaredy-cat! And right now my boyfriend hasn't talked to me for a month because he's "always out with the guys." AHEM, if you're out with the guys, there's still gotta be time to call your girlfriend, don't cha think??!!! I just could NOt handle marriage one little bit. I'm with you all the way, sistah.

Answer 5

for one thing, you picked the wrong one...I was raised to treat a lady, like a lady, and help with any and all things in marriage...I dont mind the dishes, windows, laundry, vacumning, etc...Some men never grow up...Remember, the only difference between some men and boy's is the price of their toys.....

Answer 6

men are children well into their 30,s get used to it because it isn't going to change it is fact we are wired differently and not all guys are dogs but you have some time to learn all that you need to and one day it will make sense

Answer 7

Get used to it. It doesnt change. Sad fact.

Answer 8

so i get it...you are a huge feminist who is also a sexist pig...

not all men are immature, only you would pick someone who is immature

Answer 9

It just u

Answer 10

its him.not all guys r like him
girls must grow up!!!! not men!!!!