Ladies i really need some help!!!?

Question

She used to love me and run after me when we were kids (5 until 10). I was very young and i didnt care about her.
She tried to talk to me five years ago but i turn my back on her because her boyfriend was a friend of mine.
Now she is a lawyer and living a high standar life. I am still studying in another country.
Last year everywere i went i saw her, she came at the same gym that i used to go, same clubs etc.I dont know if it was a coincidence or she was trying to get closer to me. Either way i never talked to her even if she was right next to me.
Which makes things even harder for me to talk to her now that i am inlove with her.
If i make a move on her i am thinking that she will turn me down for sure. I am still in another country, and when i had the chance i did not move on her.
What can i do? Do u think that first love even at a young age cannot be forgotten? And that she came at the gym i had been going was only a coincidence?

Answer 1

dont know about the coincidence thing, but you should really just start out by talking to her. then take it from there, just keep in contact

Answer 2

The first love is never forgotten. Her attending at the same gym could very well have been a coincidence, but that doesn't mean that you should not at least try to establish some form of communication with the young lady. You may find that she is quite amicable to that idea. It is always nice to have old friends seek you out. Don't you think that would be a good place to start?

Answer 3

Just say hi. You never know where it will go from there.
I met my second husband when we was very young i was 13 he was 11. I liked him although he was a bit of a plonker i put him in his place blacked his eye and left a lasting impression. We didn't see each other again for many years he went his way i went mine. We met up again when i was 30 and he was 28 we ended up getting married and spending nearly 9 years together it was lovely. We did part after that we decided we had grown apart and that we should go our own way's. I'm glad it didn't end on to bad a note we are still good friends which is nice.

Answer 4

first loves are never forgotten, but the feelings are very rarely there. her being in the same places you are is a coincidence. leave her alone. if she wanted to be with you, she would have said something all those times you saw each other. it seems like you only want her now because she's successful.

Answer 5

You only ever find one true love, if you are in love with this girl then go for it. If she asks why you didn't speak with her before when you saw her simply tell her the truth. If you don't you'll regret it for the rest of your life. Good luck I hope it works out for you

Answer 6

why have you suddenly decided you was in love with her? was it after you found out she was a success? you dont love her at least i dont believe you do or you wouldnt of let her go. you want her standard of life without working for it.

Answer 7

oh please!! if you like her please talk to her!! this would be so nice if you 2 got together!!!
i dont think she will turn you down
if you find it hard to say them first few wordsa just say something like, didnt you used to run after me when we were such and such age???
just get chatting about old times!!!

maybe you have seen her everywhere for a reason! maybe its to give u 2 a go!!! :o)

Answer 8

i think thats FATE
it so romantic, go for it, she might feel the same way. i can tell you are the sensitive type she's very lucky. or she will be .

Answer 9

No. You were meant to be! Get her in the sauna next time!

Answer 10

its possible that she might reject u but its always better late then never and if u dont give it a shot u will b wondering what if...?