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If so please emial me asap. thanks you
or is there any treatment or experimental drug or therapy ?

2006-11-08 08:49:05 · 7 answers · asked by HostileandBroken 1 in Science & Mathematics Medicine

Becuase My brother is very unhappy he hates feeling that way. And i am tired of seeing him in pian becuase of the guys that use him. I want real answers or real information at this piont we could care less about adapting to it. We want to suppress it. Thank you

2006-11-08 09:48:04 · update #1

We dont believe in god.

2006-11-08 09:49:13 · update #2

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NO. Homosexuality is not a disease. If your brother is having so many difficulties, he should join a support group. I have problems with men too, but I'm not looking for pills to make me stop being a woman. You and/or your brother need to accept this. Your brother needs your support. He needs to know that he is not sick. He is just who he is.

2006-11-08 13:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by bflute13 4 · 0 0

No, no way, this is a genetic predisposition. You must be very young, and maybe you are going through adolescent experimentation at this point in time. Sometimes people experiment and then just decide they are straight, sometimes not. If you are unhappy about it then it is really too bad because there is no way to change this at this time. Liking your own gender for sexual stimulation is your business only, it has nothing at all to do with your self worth or what you want to accomplish in your life or what profession you would wish to have. After you are of age and on your own, be honest with everyone, if they shun you either they will come around or they won't but either way you will know who supports you in this life. You won't be happy living a lie, that is certain. I had a friend, he is no longer living, who was a professor of behavioral psychology in Maryland. All the experiments proved that we are born liking a certain gender, some try to change it but it only causes unhappiness. So be happy no matter what.

2006-11-08 17:41:10 · answer #2 · answered by ZenWoman 4 · 1 0

If your brother is homosexual, then that is what he is. He has two options: deny being gay, get married to a woman (she could be lesbian; I knew a lesbian/homosexual couple once) and then live a life with a great big hole in it where his true love should be (his true love would be gay). Or, tough it out. Change schools, tone down the overt gayness (that's called "passing"), then start living as a gay person in a gay community. You CAN'T cure a person of homosexuality with a pill. Luckily for yor brother, gayness is not the social taboo it once was. As for being rejected by your religion, well God created gays, so the church must be wrong about that. There are cities where gayness is accepted more readily than in, say, a small town - although that doesn't mean he would be rejected anywhere but in a close-knit gay society. It's just that it must be comforting to be accepted for what and who you are. Tell him not to feel unlovable, and remember that people get teased (tortured) for being fat, quiet, the wrong color, too hairy, not bright enough - the list goes on. I'm not gay, but I know gay people and they have all suffered because they are different. But that just makes them stronger and more interesting, if they choose not to let it destroy them. I was tortured for being poor and shy, but I lived through it and rose above it. Just be strong!

2006-11-08 19:43:36 · answer #3 · answered by Miz Teri 3 · 1 0

I used to work for a Christian counseling service and had to quit my employment because of this very same issue. This man keep coming in for counseling because he was a homosexual and through his religion, he felt that being gay was immoral and dirty. The counselor assigned to him, in my opinion was leading this man in the wrong direction with ideas that he thought homosexuality could be "cured". This poor man attempted suicide multiple times and in summary was a very unhappy person. If I could have had the opportunity to counsel him myself, I would have said that IT IS NOT WRONG TO BE GAY! Be who you are. If some people in your life do not approve, they are not your true friends. Your family members who do not approve will come around eventually when they see you fulfilled and happy. Whatever you do, please do not try to be straight, marry someone, and have kids only to find out that you are gay. This will only hurt more people in the end. At the end of the day, you are who your are. Once you have the wisdom and maturity to understand this, you can truly be at peace. One of my best friends happens to be a therapist who is also gay. He is one of the most special people in my life and I am glad he is aware and can appreciate who he is. Good luck!

2006-11-08 17:14:52 · answer #4 · answered by wendy h 3 · 1 0

I personally do not believe in homosexuality-and I feel that if one believes in God and his word that they know that homosexuality isn't right. I don't believe there is a pill, but I do believe that once one has a real relationship with God-God can deliver that person from this type of behavior.

2006-11-08 17:41:14 · answer #5 · answered by crazydee 2 · 0 2

Are you for real? You probably need a shrink. Go and talk to one asap!

2006-11-08 16:54:34 · answer #6 · answered by venus11224 6 · 0 0

No.

2006-11-08 17:02:25 · answer #7 · answered by marmite v 2 · 0 0

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