at worrk there is a man(he is 27)i am 25.I think he likes me and i like him,but we never talk about this.he is married(no kids).he is very nice...But i don't know that will be mistake if something happend between as or not.I don't want to be hurt and lost him like a friend.Pls give me some advice
2006-11-08 08:43:58 · 29 answers · asked by ardonima 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, do you want to be a homewrecker?
2006-11-08 08:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
You never talk about it......sois it maybe all in your head...a fantasy....
My advice would be look carefully at the relationship you have with your boyfriend.....it cannot be all you wish for if you can think of steppinginto an affair and with a married man. You might well find he is happy in your company but not on the brink of an affair because he has too much to loose.
Revise the relationship you have and improve on it or move on from it. But not into the arms of a married man.
2006-11-08 11:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run as quickly as you may in the different direction. you're already in risky territory. Emotional affairs could make a contribution to the sorry state of a marriage, and particularly you do no longer prefer to have any energetic area interior the situation that he already has. smart female to no longer date him--bypass a step extra and ruin off all touch. tell him that marriage is substantial and he ought to purpose to artwork it out, and which you do no longer prefer to hearken to from him back as long as he's married. i'm unsure a thank you to declare this gently, yet while greater ladies basically walked far flung from those circumstances, there could be much less infidelity all around. Be the greater suitable individual and you will look back in this season of your existence and be happy which you took the severe highway. The Bible has some particularly severe stuff to declare approximately adultery (that's what it would be, regardless of if or no longer his spouse is a jerk). You sound like somebody who particularly does prefer to do the spectacular situation and characteristic it prove for the main suitable. i'm specific which you do no longer prefer to adventure the heartache and non secular effects which you will possibly particularly face. On yet another be conscious, i'm specific that God has the suitable guy for you. while you're a believer, easily pray that He connects you with the guy this is nice for you. (i will assure you that a at cutting-edge married guy isn't who He has in recommendations.) yet He does have a plan on your existence, He cares approximately you, and He needs to supply you the needs of your coronary heart. Bless you!
2016-10-15 13:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not go there in anyway do not go there. a) It would be wrong and b) you would lose your job eventually. The women always do in these circumstances. The men never do. I have seen it happen so many times.
So give yourself a break and either ignore this guy and just get on with your work or find a new job and concentrate on you and your boyfriend.
Don't forget most men would jump at the chance if it were handed on a plate, so don't lose your self respect and esteem
All the best to you and I am sure you will do the right thing in the end. xx
PS Think about his wife???
2006-11-08 08:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, i don't see anything wrong with it. Once
(if) you do start the affair you have to remember that no one in the office can know. No flirting, no hanging around his office for no reason etc. Keep things the same, though it will be hard. You will also be talking to him more, so if you know that he loves his wife or that his marriage is decent, don't convince yourself that he'll leave her for you. Don't put yourself through that. Don't dump your boyfriend in hopes of the married guy getting with you. That's just stupid. Have fun and don't forget to lock the door to the office...
2006-11-08 09:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by Curious One 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would run from that as far as I could. He is married for God's sake, and you have a boyfriend. If you are not Happy with your boyfriend, find someone that is single that would make you happy. Don't break up a marriage especially if he has any kids.
2006-11-08 08:46:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before you do anything, read your contract of meployment, and check that getting involved is not somethinbg the firm may regard as a disciplinary matter.
Secondly, think twice before you do it on your own doorstep!
2006-11-08 08:59:18 · answer #7 · answered by Matt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you just shag him and see what happens-if it goes wrong then drop me an email and i'll explian how you can go back in time in a machine i created today, i call it "the time nomad" and it is blue and silver with flapping wings of pure gold, the secret is in the fuel-which i ingeniously made out of big orange carrots.
2006-11-08 08:49:51 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. chippy mcGee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya never know you could lose your boyfriend too!!!
sorry just thought i would mention him as you aint mentioned one word about him at all!!!!!
so you wanna risk havin a affair the partners will find out and you will lose everyone the bloke and you b/f and he will lose his WIFE!
whats the point?! just coz you two want to get jiggy your gonna ruin peoples lives and then they have to learn to trust again after what u did!!
you wanna f**K him?? dump ya b/f first!
2006-11-08 08:49:01 · answer #9 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... for one.. maybe you shouldn't have a bf. Poor sap. his lady want's someone else. And poor his wife. Affairs never end up good... it looks like you are setting yourself up to fail. Best advice, let it go. You will regret it. think...would you like for someone to do that to you.....
2006-11-08 08:48:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's married - keep away! It really isn't worth all the pain!
Think how you would feel if you were married and your husband cheated.
2006-11-08 08:48:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋