Does it seem like women get have a lot more fun when it comes to intimacy? They seem to have a lot more options than men do. Good grief, just check out any adult store; the women have hundreds of choices and the men have just a mere fraction of the selection that women do. What's strange is, men often get made fun of if they use any of the accessories made for them, whether it's toys or apparel. Women don't seem to have to endure that, at least not nearly as much. Throw in the fact that women get to have multiple orgasms. It's just not fair!
I guess Cyndi Lauper was right.... Girls just wanna have fun!
Why do chicks get to have all the fun?
2006-11-08 08:34:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, we can have multiples, but so can men. And it takes a lot more skill for us to orgasm than it does men. To answer your question about toys, etc., I have no idea. Probably for the same reason that 99% of porn is designed for the male audience, not female.
2006-11-08 08:37:17 · answer #1 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Society tells us these days that is it ok for women to explore with men and each other. Most women these days are comfortable with a certain level of experimentation. Guys, on the other hand, get called gay if they even think about exploring with other guys. I think too many guys put a stigma on the kinds of sexual exploration that men can do with each other. Just like you said, the toys and materials at the porn shop mostly cater to women. Men dont need a lot to have sexual fun, just a ***** and a free hand. Guys can have orgasms in general, and a few can have multiples. I had a multiple orgasm once, 3 separate ones in a few seconds. I swear I went blind for a few seconds while it happened. If more guys were comfortable with it, things like circle jerks would be more common. According to some websites, circle jerks are not just for gay men. Surprisingly, they are more common than you think.
2006-11-08 08:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by Brad 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's all that true. It really depends on what toy stores you're going to. Mr. S Leather in San Francisco is totally male oriented (and oh so very fun to go into!). Also, I don't recall anyone "making fun" of men for having their own toy collection (btw, helloooo porn IS a toy from the way guys purchase it!).
I know plenty of men who go into the average sex store to "get things for their wives" but the truth is, the women don't want it or refuse to use it or wear it. With the wide range of toys available online, I dunno why anyone would go to a regular overpriced sex store.
2006-11-08 08:40:30 · answer #3 · answered by darthbouncy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is just not true. Its a fallacy within your mind. One could also point out that women are many times more victims in our society as well. What I'm going to say next is not meant to hurt or demean you...just my honest response to your dilemma. If you chose to sit back and surrender your attitude to, and be jealous of women(as a whole) for just being themselves, and not see the greatness of man (especially when it comes to intimacy)...and your role as one, you are missing the whole point of who and what you are.
Your power has to come from within. Being a man should make you proud...not crying about how much fun women are having.
2006-11-08 09:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because guys spend way to much time in their head wondering how to have fun and woman don't, we just do it..... As far as the orgasm thing goes, you can.... Have her stimulate you more and have her keep doing it to build up the tolerance of coming and then you'll be able to have multiple orgasms too...
2006-11-08 08:42:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright.. i have never been in an adult shop.. and have no clue what the apparel is.. so I'm gonna guess you want some accessories to play with yourself, so go ahead. and make your own.. i wont make any judgments about you.
2006-11-08 08:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becauase they have p uss y power to get it from whoever they watn to as many times asa they want to not like us men- we have to take a girl out and if we're lucky we'll get a kiss or hug at the end of the night
2006-11-08 08:37:45 · answer #7 · answered by joey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PMS, Periods, Pregnancy, Childbirth, Breasts (more of a burden if they're large), constantly having to be seen as attractive...yeah, women have it so easy.
2006-11-08 08:44:31 · answer #8 · answered by Deleted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of that girl stuff is bought by guys with a fantasy. Most of it never gets used.
2006-11-08 08:38:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting a sex toy means you can't get a chick but a woman getting a sex toy means that the guy just doesn't do it for her
2006-11-08 08:36:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋