Fiance lies about porn on internet?

Question

Caught him 2 months ago on internet with different web sites to porn. said, Things just keep appearing he doesn't know why. Resently found 6 web sites of different sex,animal w/people, threesomes etc. I called him to the computer, he said I didn't do this, Said must be his daughter 15 yr old. he yelled at her ,punished her, and I'm not sure if she really did this. I don't know how to find out. Hate to bring this up again I don't like lies........

Answer 1

the only way to know what he has looked at is to make sure the history is clear before he goes on line. then look after he is done to see what he is looking at. you'll probably have to have the daughter help you in this plan....unless she is the real culprit... you could also set the security high so that no porn can be looked at. then see wick one complains first

Answer 2

what kind of computer do you have? do you use AOL?

What you can do is make profiles with passwords for all the users on your computer. Then you can check to see in each cookie folder to view what they have viewed.

or if you are using AOL

These restricted accounts are available through AOL. When you are setting up a new screen name you can choose an under 18 setting which limits what that user can visit.

P.S.
What bothers you more? The viewing of "porn" over the internet or the fact that he may have lied? I dated a guy that was into porn via the internet, for me it was worse because it made me realize that he was a bit twisted.

Answer 3

Most Men like porn..
Most women do not like porn..
Leave him alone..He is not doing anything wrong..
He should not have lied about it and even worse, he should not
have punished his daughter...Though there is a chance that he is telling the truth and the daughter was really doing it...
You should tell Fiance that you understand that he / men like porn but you , and most women, do not..You will make a real effort to watch porn with him whenever he wants..And you will be nice and try to work it into some of your own activities...In return, he will make a real effort not to watch porn unless you are there..
At least that way, you have some knowledge & control over what is going on and will have no reason to be jealous...
Don't over react to this porn thing because he is going to watch it.

Answer 4

Well he could be telling the truth about his daughter being on the internet. Personally, when i was younger i was totally into porn because I hadn't yet had sex and wanted to know more about it. But if you have your suspicions, and you really want to approach your husband again about this then tread lightly. Do not accuse. There is nothing wrong with porn. It is simply a safer form of voyeurism. Your husband senses your disdain towards porn and doesn't feel comfortable enough to share this with you. Aren't marriages all about honesty, sharing, and compromises? Why don't you try suggesting to him that you want to watch one with him (hopefully none with the animals b/c i think that's so unnatural, next to fake tans). And, hey, who knows, maybe you'll enjoy it.

Answer 5

Well now congratulations. Your daughter thinks sex is wrong and will probably go behind your back, Your husband will still watch porn, and you will be thinking that is cheating and make a big issue about it but then pick up some vice and make it out to be all his fault. Get counseling. A little porn never hurt anyone. Talking directly to someone on the computer.... Now that is different!

Answer 6

I have had trouble with this as well. But, the difference is...I really didn't care. He might be very scared that you will get really mad!!! It really isn't that big of a deal. Every guy looks at porn!!! Every guy!!! The difference is if your a cool chick. If you truly don't care...I swear he wont lie to you. But the lying situation already is bad. Either he is scared, or he is a wierdo. Do you know him that well? But always remember, GUYS LOOK AT PORN...ALL THE TIME...EVEN THE ONES THAT SAY THEY DON'T!!

Answer 7

I don't know what to tell you on that but I do know that if you want to see what he has been looking at log onto the internet and when you are on press and hold the ctrl key and while holding it press H this will bring up the history and past viewed websites (this only works on Internet Explorer) If you need more help contact me.......
Hope you get the best.......

Answer 8

you have the classic indications of somebody thats cheating, I dont say you're however the variety you're appearing is giving out the indications which you're. in case you're in a warm sexual no holds barred dating then you definately shouldn't % porn, its pretend and its approximately 2 or extra human beings production intercourse, its no longer actual and not in any respect would be. i think unhappy for people who would desire to seem at porn, whats incorrect inclusive of your fiancee ? cant she do porn for you ? What a tragic international we live in while couples would desire to motel to observing different human beings having intercourse while they'd desire to be doing it themselves. you does no longer watch somebody consume a bar of chocolate for delight in case you needed one your self might you? Porn is sleazy at best and if thats the only factor that gets you interior the temper I pity you. you mustn't be engaged as long as you reside your existence this way. disgrace on you.

Answer 9

if it is him, let him have his fun. it doesn't hurt anyone and you may get laid more often. however if ti is the daughter then you need to get some software to keep her from going to these sites. netnanny comes to mind.

pose a question in the computer tech section asking about monitoring software. it records every site and character typed on the pc. maybe just use it on the daughters log on.

Answer 10

Honestly? Let it go. He could be doing worse things. If or when it starts to interfere with his life i.e. he stops going to work so he can surf porn all day, then MAYBE you have a legitimate gripe. Anyways, excuse me whilst I go surfeth for some Porn.