i didnt mean to.we were at lunch and she took a big bit of the burger tht i was eating so i got mad and i called her a fatas* . tht made her cry (but she's not fat she's 5'9 and like
105-110 lbs)
what can i do to make it up to her?
2006-11-08 08:30:50 · 32 answers · asked by Simply Me 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start by apologizing . .get her a nice card and some flowers . . .
2006-11-08 08:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow! You just did a cardinal sin. Never say the word fat when talking to your girlfriend unless you are talking about the super model on TV :) Just a little advice. Guess you found that out on your own.
Anyway if you did this in front of a crowd then apologize in front of the same crowd if you don't feel comfortable doing that then send her flowers so that those people will see that you are trying to makeup.
2006-11-08 08:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by jacket2230 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made a huge mistake and just because your father moved out and you got mad never take it out on your lover. You need to try singing to her, her favorite song would be a good song to sing. Find out when she is going to be around town and go there, make sure there are some few people around just to show her you really care about her and you'd risk your reputation for her. Then you should be good and tell her you love her. If she rejects you i am sorry but it is your fault for hurting her and taking it out on her so. But i hope this helps you and i wish you luck, fix things before you don't even have a chance to.
2016-05-21 22:37:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you made a big mistake young man. you will have to work hard to help her to forget that stupid comment. tell her your sorry buy her some of her favorite flowers and some chocolate. NEVER mention fat or fat people in her presence.
Subtlety mention to her that you are pleased with her body and that you do not think she is fat. She may be very self conscious about her looks
2006-11-08 08:37:40 · answer #4 · answered by dreson k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her flowers and get her a card and APOLOGIZE. That was a very mean thing to say. I don't understand how you could get mad at her for taking a bite out of your hamburger!!!!! You care more about your lunch than her feelings!!!!
2006-11-08 08:35:00 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Pea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, I'm sure that hurt her feelings, even though I believe she knows she's not a fata**.
Apologize for being an insensitive idiot. And make sure it's the last time you act like one.
2006-11-08 08:34:09 · answer #6 · answered by BVC_asst 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you have to make it up to her? She took your food and now she expects you to apologize. If you do, she will know that any time she wants to win an argument, all she has to do is start crying. Tell her if she wants to talk about it you're willing to listen but you won't but up with her crying.
2006-11-08 08:37:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jason S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flowers!
2006-11-08 08:32:54 · answer #8 · answered by Sooner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh em gee?!?! u are inhuman that is like the worst thing u can say to a girl, especially if they actually look good then theyll try to go on some diet to get even skinnier + ur her b-o-y-f-r-i-e-n-d ur not suppose to get mad when she has a bite of ur food. good luck gettin her back u jerk
2006-11-08 08:35:21 · answer #9 · answered by &d. i. l. i. hawt; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell ehr you were upset you didnt mean it tell her shes skinny she obviousally already insercure about her wait if she CRIED if shes mad then u just ticked her off but if she cried she already thinks she sover weight talk to her tell her shes not fat and you were just mad
2006-11-08 08:33:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhh my! you really need to start apologizing and understand how you made her feel. no girl wants to be called fat especially by her boyfriend. you should send her flowers and a card with a sincere apology.
2006-11-08 08:33:23 · answer #11 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋