I am forty years young...and my fiance' is fifty. He enjoys watchin' naughtiness online....and even chatting online naughty....but, never seems to want to be intimate with me.
I'm really worried about this. Could he be playing me....just lazy...what?
2006-11-08 08:25:51 · 12 answers · asked by treefrog 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he has intimacy issues. Most guys would jump at the chance to have real sex with a real woman. Obviously, this guy is in love with his fantasy life, the idea of exploring his needs through detached means.
2006-11-08 08:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by Brad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd drop him pronto. each second is too valuable to waste on indulgences in non events; they are best spent with a gem like you.
Sometimes people just do not know what they have, even sadder that many never will... has to do with mental and physical inadequacies perhaps.
Oops.. I am no lady... sorry.
2006-11-09 00:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by McDreamy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a pervert! that's all, he needs more action thats why, men likes the naughtiness and excitement online. I think you should move on and find someone else, it means you are not enough for him, that's why he wanted porn and chat. get the clue girl!
2006-11-08 08:33:05 · answer #3 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after all the those that had anwsered this you should already recognize what im going to assert already get rid of the internet hobo reason he's milking you and taking you for each little thing i mean come on you enable a guy u met on line stay with you even after all he does is communicate over with different women people and watch porn come on something isnt good with this image
2016-11-28 22:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex was like that, broke my heart. then i cought him in the act he was swapping pics with a tranny online. his fam never new what he was in to, i tryed to except him but i just didnt know were i fit in, so we split up. i have a new man and well i still question him sometimes it makes things really hard for us... i would say get out before your turn bitter... good luck
2006-11-08 08:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he wants excitement without commitment... too bad he is already commited to you and you should tell him so ...if he insist on continueing his ways, try doing the same thing to him - guys online are so easy...i know thats probably not what you want to do - but it will show him that what is good for the goose is good for the gander as well...good luck...
2006-11-08 08:31:25 · answer #6 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl....cut him off. If he doesn't wan to be intimate with you...there is a problem. Find a man that doesn't wan to a relationship with that kind of stuff. Let him go.
2006-11-08 08:31:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's more intrested in other people, but maybe one night beat him to bed, and wear somthing that says, I'm naughty too.
2006-11-08 08:29:31 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever told him about how you feel, if you haven't then you should because then he will know that your just as hot and horny as him and also try just hinting e.g. when watching the movie say i'd like to try that sometime so that he will be thinking of you when his watching them
2006-11-08 08:28:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd ask him directly, and if he stalls, be worried because either he's *bored* or he's cheating
2006-11-08 08:27:34 · answer #10 · answered by Kalphbeir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋