2006-11-08 08:20:03 · 15 answers · asked by kristyisaacs2004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
other than the hold hands kiss hug and all that stuff, just think of him as a friend, talk to him like u would anybody else.........................did that first guy even read the question?!!!
2006-11-08 08:21:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the first time you meet anyone your always nerves , so don't worry about that! The truth is that I don't think the nervs ever really go away. I'm married but when I was dating (my now husband) I had known him for about five years before we started dating but I was so nerves I would get sick to my stomach but after talking a lot asking and asking a lot of question getting to know him better finding out what his secrets were the nerves started going away. So my advice would be go with the flow it will be okay you don't have to worry about anything. Just get to know him like if he were a bran new friend and enjoy it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-08 16:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by Gismo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got a boyfriend today, but your nervous around him? Oh man, how old are you? It sounds like if your too nervous around a boyfriend, your not ready for one. I am sorry, but if you can call him your boyfriend, you need to feel comfortable around him!
2006-11-08 16:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by mom_of_4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your nervous then talk to him get to know him spend time with him you will evetnually be comfortable with him lossten up. Kiss him hug him hold hands with him be a girlfriend ;) BUT DONT GO TO FAST.
2006-11-08 16:22:56 · answer #4 · answered by Stephi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um how long have you known each other? if i were you i would go out on a few dates with the guy and see other people and get to know him as well as my other options, and i wouldnt commit to a relationship until i felt comfortable with that person. maybe you should slow down. good luck!
2006-11-08 16:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by robert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just act normal, do what feels right, and appreciate the time you spend with him. Go for low key stuff--no pressure---just have fun. It sounds like this is one of your first boyfriends. Just run with it and don't make any rash decisions. :) Good luck!
2006-11-08 16:24:30 · answer #6 · answered by lilazngurly53146 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetie, this tends to happen. It takes a while to build up comfort around someone. Just give it time and live it day by day! before you know it you will be very comfortable around him and the nervousness will fade :) Congrats!
2006-11-08 16:21:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have simple conversations, don't try to make a joke (cause those don't always work), and speak loudly, but not too loud, but not a whisper. Soon give him your phone number and get use to him being around.
2006-11-08 16:22:11 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't be nervous around him, be comfortable.. talk about whatever you want.. don't bore him to death, and have fun. don't worry about it, it wont last forever, just have a good time with it.
2006-11-08 16:24:08 · answer #9 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself...the rest will happen naturally...and dont let anyone force you into doing anything you're not ready for...
2006-11-08 16:22:56 · answer #10 · answered by chelley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋