2006-11-08 08:16:18 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it depends on wat is ur definiton of a perfect boy....
may be wat ur looking for does not exist or u r not upto thhe standards of ur mr perfect....
if the standard set by u is too high u need to lower it down..
best of luck...
2006-11-08 08:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as a pefect person. We al come with baggage. You must know yourself inside and out. What kind of person am I? What do I believe in? What will I compromise on and what is set in stone? What do I need in a mate that I am lacking? Many who I've talked to end up with the same type of person over and over and keep complaining about it. Some people end up in abusive relationships and wonder why. Because the person is seeks it unknowingly. Also we tend to look for people with similar characteristics to our parents, whether good or bad. Stop looking and wait patiently. There is no rush. I waited and found someone or we actually found each other. She is everything I wanted and more. Good luck
2006-11-08 08:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by Your #1 fan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all describe what do you mean by perfect.
When you are done then read what you describe as perfect and realize no one is.
Half perfect maybe. Maybe you are seeking someone like your dad or other male role-model. We as females usually do just that. Try to let yourself outside of the box and evaluate those guys you dated in the past who were like the person you described out loud. That is actually the person who is not the perfect guy. Techicaly!
I know I picked 17 of them. I am now looking for someone not like my dad and brother
2006-11-08 08:20:29 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I took a Spicejet filght last week and grabbed a flite-zine to catch some sleep .. the gist of what I remember from one of the articlaes:
a) Generally girls are a bit more fantastic and wont ever settle until the prince of her dream arrives. More often than not (thanks to the mordern makeup industry and technologies) girls are pretty. Or, at least, they think so... Ya ya the guys think so too ..
And gather look and wooers at pretty decent rate.. This highers your standards of the so-called "prince" and makes you demand more
b) Among other reasons: i presume (spicejet article presumes) you are a dreamer, or atleast wannabe .... Its perfect and its definitely too great an idea to dream... But the cost at which it materialize is sometimes too far fetched... But even then I personally fel its better to dream than not ...
c) The Indian social situation is too compromising... and more often than not guys look for a "first fit" and girls look for "best fit" (defying the social condition... this should be good :D) ... girls would have some zillion criteria in mind and expect somebody to fit all ..... good to have
d) The way girls grow up... and pampered ... (quite recently success is also spelt by most of them as cup of coffee) make their dream "prince" little more unique in mind ...
The above cases are what I have remembered ... I have a dogfootish brain and do not remember even my gfs birthday ... so may be i have forgotten a bit ... and all these were not my creation but read from somewhere ... i dont remember the authors name .. but thanks to him ...
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2006-11-08 13:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by sando4all 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there is no such thing as a perfect person. What you should do is decide the things that you are and are not willing to put up with in a relationship. Keep in mind that at the same time that you are putting up with someone else's mess they are putting up with your's.
2006-11-08 08:20:32 · answer #5 · answered by bttrfly0724 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing called as perfect boyfriend. Choose anyone you like.
2006-11-08 23:17:10 · answer #6 · answered by manoj Ransing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to have the "perfect boyfriend" there must be the perfect boy and we all know there's no such thing as a "perfect boy"...
2006-11-08 08:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by LaToya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is perfect. It's hard for some of us to even imagine. Find the right guy and enjoy him. Are you perfect? Be understanding. We are all human.
2006-11-08 08:19:55 · answer #8 · answered by robert r 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one's perfect. Just concentrate on finding someone who you enjoy being with and who is trying to be the best he can be. Learn to appriciate his strengths and don't dwell on his faults. Besides, if you had a boyfriend who was perfect wouldn't it make you feel inadiquate all the time? ;-)
2006-11-08 08:22:33 · answer #9 · answered by cluckder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because no one is perfect, no even you. Life is not perfect. If you are searching for perfect you will be very disappointed
2006-11-08 08:19:02 · answer #10 · answered by chattylady47150 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because besides nobody being perfect everyone has different standards on what the perfect mate will be or how they want their significant other to be or act. and sometimes they just dont agree with each other .
2006-11-08 08:30:47 · answer #11 · answered by tha_social 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋