Is it wired when a grown man doesn't close the door when he is chaning cloths at his parents house?
I am in a serious relationship with a man who is super. He is in his late 30's and is currently living with his folks. His bedroom is right next to his folks bedroom. I have noticed that when is getting ready he never closes his bedroom. This is when his parents are around. One day his mother went to her room while he was changing in his room wich is next to her room. I have asked him but he says no they won't see anything. But could see everything from his living room when he was changing. He doesn't pull down the blinds in the bathroom when he uses the restroom or in the shower. So oneday I went outside to see if anything can be seen and I did see everything. But it doesn't bother him. He's walked around naked in front of meat his house when his parents weren't around and the windows curtin were not fully closed and you can see the busy street through the windows.I was affraid someone is going to see everything. But he doesn't care about it at all. Am I making a big deal of this?
2006-11-08 08:14:06 · 8 answers · asked by Need H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well, not to my mind, but some of us did grown up not having a sense of modesty or having modesty be important. There are people who feel the human body is beautiful and are not ashamed to let others show it. However, this should be by choice and not some guy just standing naked in the doorway.
Unfortunately it is also a crime called exposure. So NO you are not making something out of nothing. If you stay with him and have daughters or even sons who have friends over, what are they going to think.
A man and wife have a right to be nude together (or a committed couple) in the PRIVACY of their home. This does NOT extend to their children and PRIVACY would entail closed blinds and windows.
If you are not comfortable with it, speak with him once again and if he continues to do this...lose him.
2006-11-08 08:22:54 · answer #1 · answered by Dust in the Wind 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some individuals are simply extra secure with that variety of factor. My Mom for illustration may be very open approximately her nudity. She will stroll out to the residing room whilst I am there utterly bare. It does not hassle me feel I am used to it. All households are exclusive.
2016-09-01 09:20:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww... Close the door. I call it just common courtesy. Not everyone (even family) is interested in seeing someone they changed diapers on. This is why I tell my kids, shut the door, I don;t want to see what you had for dinner...
2006-11-08 09:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by dadknows 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things like this don't seem to bother men I don't know why. my husband would change clothes right there in the living room even when his mom was around and yea this bothered me also.
2006-11-08 08:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by wendy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No in my opinion you are not. Sounds to be as if he thinks everyone appreciates seeing his naked body. This is childish behavior.
2006-11-08 08:16:50 · answer #5 · answered by chattylady47150 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WOW that pretty nasty ans disturbing! But if he doesn' care, why should you? And if you do, just talk to him about it!
2006-11-08 08:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by Dan =] 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well he doesn't have anything his parents haven't seen before...
2006-11-08 08:19:28 · answer #7 · answered by Lovely 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
must be from ALABAMA.......
2006-11-08 09:29:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋