and i like him...A LOT....hes sooo hot and funny....and i know he doesnt like me so what should i do????but he likes me as a friend....
2006-11-08 08:09:38 · 12 answers · asked by Courtney(: 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he likes you as a friend, use that to your advantage and enjoy it. Unfortunately we cannot will or make someone care for us as we do them. Being and having a dear friend though has its own value...which can be much greater than a love affair and have more substance.
I would suggest you not appear "moon eyed" in his presence, but instead present yourself as a person who has an independent mind, a good sense of humor, your own style and a nice sweet smile. This give you a chance to observe him close up. The more you understand what he is about the more you can shine in his eyes.
You must however, not let your involvement become obsessive. By no means should you stifle yourself on his behalf. Continue to develop your life. You will find that it has much, much more in store for you.
2006-11-08 08:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Hot and funny guys are a dime a dozen. Be glad you have a sooo hot and funny friend. Just enjoy the time together.
2006-11-08 16:13:42 · answer #2 · answered by purelilly4909 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just get away from him as quickly as possible. If he only likes you as a friend and you like him more you two will never have a healthy friendship. In the back of your head you will want more and it will be hard to se him with other girls. Don't trip though there is sooooo many other fish in the sea. Trust me!!!! I think there are alot of great guys in this world so just wait and see if you meet another:) Good luck
2006-11-08 16:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by Tasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start off being friends. that way you will get to know him well. I'm assuming you both are still in high school. during college or where ever you go in life, you can both keep in touch. take things one step at a time. you might find someone you really love one day and wish to marry instead of this fellow. but, you might fall in love with each other one day. either way, you would definitely have something good.
2006-11-08 16:23:25 · answer #4 · answered by rubyred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know he doesnt like you and you really like him, i think you should just remain friends, because if you tell him that you like him it may make him feel ackward, and feel that he will hurt you if he dates someone else, and knowing that he will hurt you he wont like that. So i would just hang in theere and be his close friend and be there for him, he may start liking you if he sees another side to you that he likes.
2006-11-08 16:12:26 · answer #5 · answered by munchkin0430 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay friends with him, sometimes the best relationships start off as friendships
2006-11-08 16:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't like you...that means although he is funny and attractive, your not. Maybe you should create a machine that will make you attractive and funny but until then my answer is...TOO BAD!
2006-11-08 16:14:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
like quick sand, if you don't get over him asap things get alot worse,
he ain't into u, not much u can do but move on and not make ur life worse by worring about it
2006-11-08 16:11:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has already put you in the friend zone thats all it will ever be.
2006-11-08 16:14:59 · answer #9 · answered by mikec1452001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend, but look elsewhere for romance.
2006-11-08 16:11:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋