I have 2 co-wkrs. one does not want kids the other does and says that the one who doesn't is selfish for not having any. I told the one who doesn't want kids to stick 2 her guns because I was born of a mother who didnt' want kids and it was not fun. I also feel that is something you should want in your heart and soul an be ready for the experience and the responsibility. That if she truly does not want children and has made plans not to have them then that is very mature. I told the woman who can't have children that she is self - centered; telling someone they should have a baby because she can't. She would not be the one raising or caring for it in any way especially financially. I told her that it was very mature of that girl to be placed on bc's so she can't get pregnant and no one should have a baby so someone else can live throught them vicariously. What do you think?
2006-11-08
07:59:36
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I personally think and told my co-worker (both) that if you want children it can be a blessing but if you dont it can be a hell for parents and children. I mom had 3 kids and never planned or wanted any of us and I personally felt it and still feel it. Just because you can produce a child doesn't mean you should.
2006-11-08
08:41:30 ·
update #1
It's not selfish it's responsible.
2006-11-08
08:42:05 ·
update #2
What's selfish is to not want children have them and mistreat and/or neglect them.
2006-11-08
08:42:33 ·
update #3