Lately I have been getting really really turned on of the thought of sleeping with another guy other than my fiance. There is no guy in particular it's more of the thought of sleeping with someone new. I do love my fiance and we get along fine. We have a daughter together so since her birth my sex drive went way way down hill, so a week ago I started to take Fematril to increase my sex drive. Well it is working but now these thoughts are coming to my head. The thought is really driving me crazy. Please take this question serious. Please no men comments saying "I'll sleep with you" because I would never cheat on him.
2006-11-08 07:35:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's perfectly normal to fantasize so don't feel bad. As long as you don't fufill the fantasy you are fine. These thoughts could be brought on my your medications so you may wanna check with your doctor and find out what the side effects are. Also see if the dosage is too strong. Hope I helped!!
2006-11-08 07:40:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the question is..did you have these thoughts before you started to take the medication? If the answer is yes, then you have become bored with your sex life with your mate and are wanting to "explore" outside of the everyday life. If the answer is no, then you should look at the side effects of the medication and question whether or not to continue to take them. We as humans often look at another person and wonder in our minds, "what would if be like", but that is a sin and shouldn't do it, but we do..so the best thing you can do...stay with your man and kinda tell him your "problem"...tell him your sex drive is really high and you are going to need constant attention in that area...it should help you take your mind off another man...but if that doesn't help..try watching an xxx video while your having sex with your fiance....it will give your mind the "wonder" and your soul the "loyal" feeling. Also, it might help your fiance get a little more turned on by you wanting to "explore" out of the norm with a video.
2006-11-08 07:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by cdb774 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal, but whatever you do don't sleep with anyone else, you will just be hurting your child and him, and that is the last thing you need to do. Try roll playing with your fiance, you don't have to say anything to him, and when the lights are off, you can fantasize that he is someone else, you'll be getting into it more, and he will like that. I can tell my fiance that I want him to pretend he is a doctor, or a college teacher, and he does it, and it is so HOT.
2006-11-08 07:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like your in a tight spot. Maybe you should talk to my Cheating ex wife. For Eleven years we were saying that there would never be another then.....bam! Well, I suggest you have sex more often with your boyfriend. Say that you have just been over horney and need a release from the pressure. I am sure he will understand.
2006-11-08 07:40:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it somewhat is favourite, yet notwithstanding you do do now stay wide awake with all of us else, you will only be hurting your baby and him, and that's the final factor you could desire to do. try roll enjoying inclusive of your fiance, you do no longer would desire to declare something to him, and while the lighting fixtures fixtures are off, you could fantasize that he's somebody else, you would be getting into it extra, and he will like that. i'm able to tell my fiance that i % him to pretend he's a doctor, or a school instructor, and he does it, and it is so warm.
2016-10-21 12:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never actualize your fantasies. They lose their potency. Fortunately, the drug is affecting you head and not your body. You ought to lust after your fiance, engage in incredible sex, and several hours later have a romantic dinner together.
2006-11-08 07:42:19 · answer #6 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is definitely the sex drive booster and there is nothing wrong with you . all you need to do is get satisfaction from your fiance and all those nasty thoughts will go away. good luck
2006-11-08 07:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ogle other men when you're with him, including those on TV,
2014-07-06 06:06:05 · answer #8 · answered by That Wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well did you ever think that the pills may be causing these thoughts and it is just how your body and mind is reacting to the pills
2006-11-08 07:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by SexyMandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look I told you to quit stalking me!!!
You are on the cusp of getting married and I feel you and I having sex or hooking up will be difficult
2006-11-08 07:38:09 · answer #10 · answered by Paul M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋