i have a bf that lives with me and we dont get along so i have been talking to this guy on the net he wonts to move in with me ? so what do i do?
2006-11-08 07:31:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh well, you have this guy on the net, and thinking of living together? I'll just tell you, slow down.
2006-11-08 07:33:34 · answer #1 · answered by Earthling 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
don't expect the grass to be greener on the other side, yeah in movies it always is, and everyone lives happily ever after, but this is real life. u 2 may get along really well right now, but think of the potential problems that could come later down the line- u leave ur current bf for him to move in with u- can we say karma- he might dump u, or be insecure that once u find some1 else he's gone. if u can't work it out with ur current bf, then let him go- take some time for urself and decide if u really wanna jump into another relationship where he lives with u- sometimes it's best that u keep ur place as ur space
2006-11-08 07:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you for real?.... to move one out, and then another in so fast....do you even know this person properly on the net?....if not i suggest you think twice about moving strangers into your house, and besides wouldn't you just be on the rebound...watch out you dont end up getting hurt...i say dont do it..but the choice is yours at the end of the day. Stay Safe.
2006-11-08 07:36:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does either man know about the other? As long as you have a bf, you're tied to him. If you don't got an spark with the guy you're living with, then perhaps you gotta dump him. But I don't suggest allowing the other guy to move in until you guys have dated. What if it doesn't work out with him.
2006-11-08 07:34:43 · answer #4 · answered by wolfgirl1987 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to finish up one relationship b4 u move on to the next. if u weren't getting along w/ your bf u should've ended that one BEFORE u started talking to the net guy.
2006-11-08 07:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by meme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you heard of the ol saying, "You don't know someone till you live with them" This statement is refering to your current relationship with ur bf - it's seems that your'e going through a rough patch to say the least. Now your looking elsewhere because your'e unsatisfied - You don't really know this internet guy that well (remember the ol saying I stated above!) I say you sort out your problems with the guy your living with... I'm not telling you what to do, the choice is yours but you have to sort out your relationship with your boyfriend otherwise things could end up messy...
2006-11-08 07:38:25 · answer #6 · answered by sum2000mayyah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the guy living with you and do not take the guy from the net. He is a stranger and you may be very sorry..
2006-11-08 07:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave your bf because it sounds like your not happy.
I would'nt move in with this guy from net because you only know what he tells you and how do you know if he is telling you the truth. I would'nt even meet this guy on your own.I would'nt even trust him,how can you when you don't know him.
Why don't you be on your own for a while,have fun with your mates or something.Enjoy yourself :)
2006-11-08 07:39:14 · answer #8 · answered by Nic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you need to break up with your b/f and be alone for awhile...you also need to date someone for awhile before you even consider them moving in with you or vice versa..and the guy wants to move in with you already? how long have you been talking to him? have you even met him yet? gone out with him?.....man people today just dont know how to go slow and get to know each other better before jumping into a relationship
2006-11-08 07:40:03 · answer #9 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend some time by yourself, you don't need to live with a man, make yourself happy and whole before you bring someone else into your life.
2006-11-08 07:36:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋