2006-11-08 07:29:17 · 27 answers · asked by John 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't. Just be alert and watch for the signs....unexplained purchases, loss of interest in intimacy, trouble maintaining eye contact, a sudden change in mood or behavior, mysterious phone calls, a confrontational attitude, making excuses to leave, unfamiliar scents, etc. Most importantly, do not expect honesty. If they have something to hide, you'll be the last to know.
2006-11-08 07:42:17 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Taken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
presumably you mean within a relationship - follow them? or get a friend to. What makes you think they are cheating? Get proof, then have it out with them. It is a good idea to keep your cool when you do challenge them - and to do this you need to have decided in advance what outcome you want. Are you going to coolly ask them to pack and hand over their key? Or are you going to ask them to give the other one up and stay? Either way, screaming and tears are not going to help! So get it clear in your head what is going to happen, then sock it to them straight. But you must get your absolute proof first
2006-11-08 07:33:09 · answer #2 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There routine changes go out earlier or later to work find reasons to go places without you they have a day off when your at work and you know they havent spent the day at home,they get text messages and dont tell you who they are from they dress up to go shopping change there hairdo or shave off their moustache,you find odd things in their car like sweet wrappers that you know arent yours they keep telling you they love you even if you dont ask in bed they are always tired or you are too demanding they call you paranoid i sincerely hope none of this applies to you its truly horrible if they are get out now before it really hurts
2006-11-08 07:39:35 · answer #3 · answered by toto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you feel like you are being cheated own. He/she invests to much time online talking to the opposite sex. You become paranoid and feel ignored. Hard to reach them via the phone.
2006-11-08 07:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by Bu Tran 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask then you don't need to be with him......girl get out now!!! Ive been goin through it for five years i wish i would have left the first time!!
_LOL i just went back and looked to see who posted the message and its funny because every answer is from a female to another female but your a guy!! thats ctazy how we me too thought that you were a girl being hurt by another man!! its sad!
2006-11-08 07:46:59 · answer #5 · answered by sweetchic117 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes probably going to be either really distant and out more than normal or really over attentive. I know its horrid, but check her phone messages if you can. At least you will know for sure.
2006-11-08 07:36:08 · answer #6 · answered by firefly2280 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your partner will stay out for long periods of time longer than normal. usually go off sex, start taking more and more interest in their appearance, become evasive and argumentative, quick mood changes, odd behaviour, don't even like you touching them.
2006-11-08 08:33:09 · answer #7 · answered by GaryUKB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's suddenly changed - i.e taking care of her appearance, new hair-style, perfume, new clothes but most of all the sexy underwear comes out. But not for you.
What makes you suspicious?
2006-11-08 07:35:03 · answer #8 · answered by OO7 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking this question ...you probably are. Follow your gut feeling. TRUST ME! I thought that once......and I was right. And asking a million people isnt going to make you feel better ......follow your heart ....and i am sorry you feel that way.
Good luck
2006-11-08 07:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by mslatin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you notice your boyfriend is always busy or getting lots of calls when you are out or on a date
2006-11-08 07:31:34 · answer #10 · answered by .:clairebear:. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋