am i paranoid..???...i love my bf soooo much and i think he loves me tooo.hes the one that always tells me!! and we have both said to each other that we would never cheat on each othe!r..yet i think he is! :(...the other day we were round his house on his computer and there were some pictures of some pretty girls on his comp! and not long ago before when we was on his computer we deleted pictures of girls..but now hes got more??!! is he cheatin on me and what would u honestly do if u was me!!?? thanks 4 ur help xx xx
2006-11-08 07:18:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
guys will be guys - I don't think you could say guys cheat ( that is what they do ) , but i think you could say that women cheat , because they should not do that - so it is cheating --- I hope this helps you - email me if I didn't make myself clear
2006-11-08 07:31:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why cant he look at other pretty girls and there be nothing behind it? Are they naked? IS it a download or some real pics? It could be some MySpace crap. Whatever the case you need to trust oyur guy with whatever he says until you see some evidence like an email tha says, "oh...lastnight was great.When are u coming over again?"
Isn't that his computer anyway? If you make a big deal out of it he might feel like he has to hide things from you. If he likes looking at pretty girls why should he hide that?
2006-11-08 07:25:09 · answer #2 · answered by BB'sMom 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Confront him. If he is secretive about having these pics on his computer then something is definately going on.
Another thing is too, he may not be cheating on you but talking to all these girls on the internet, tell him that you don't like it and ask him to stop.
The longer you let things go the more serious things could get.
2006-11-08 07:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by debs1701 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your relationship is going to go anywhere good you have to be able to be honest with each other.start off by saying you know i trust you but it really got me worried the other night when i saw those pictures on your computer,give him a chance to explain lots of men look at girls they dont all cheat on their girlfriends.Id be more worried if he kept getting text messages or stayed out after work so take a deep breath and ask him good luck
2006-11-08 07:25:28 · answer #4 · answered by toto 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's really kind of hard to say, but maybe you should ask him who they are and their relation to him. That may clear things up. If his answer sounds a bit off, then I would have reason to worry. But usually if a guy is cheating, they will not say that they love you all the time.
2006-11-08 07:22:33 · answer #5 · answered by *mxgirl115* 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Can you say porn fetish?
If it's not porn:
I don't think he'd just right click and save a picture of a random pretty chick. Maybe he's just made friends online and they traded pictures?
Don't jump to conclusions too early, just be like 'hey sweety, who's that?' maybe it's his cousin mandy and her friend terra. Maybe it's some chick he talks to that he met on darkstarlings.com. Maybe he's got a net relationship behind your back.
2006-11-08 07:24:44 · answer #6 · answered by kenniemcooper 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's not cheating on you, he's just downloaded some pictures of models or something. Haven't you got any pictures of cute actors or anything? It's just like that.
2006-11-08 07:23:12 · answer #7 · answered by Katrina Van Tassel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sweetie,
just because he has pictures of other girls it doesnt neccesarily mean that he is cheating.... if you have doubts sit and talk to him and ask him why does he have these pictures, if he has a good answer than go with it... but dont count your chickens before they hatch, dont freak out just for pictures. if he hasnt gave you areason to think that he is cheating than dont freak.... they areprobably friends.
good luck
2006-11-08 07:23:40 · answer #8 · answered by SHORTY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think he just likes looking at beautiful women. if he was cheating on you then i assure you there would be no other pics on his comp apart from yours. if i were you i would ask about the pics and not make a big deal out of it.
2006-11-08 07:23:43 · answer #9 · answered by Obria 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave him...he'll never change. He knows you're not the one for him and is looking at what the market has to offer. Maybe he doesn't want to break up with you cos he knows you love him more than he loves you. Set him free and leave him be.
2006-11-08 07:21:52 · answer #10 · answered by Craiova 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋