I know that Im really young to be thinking about marriage since I'm only 20 years old. However, Im graduating from college with my bachelors in Economics next year. I always had this pre-concieved notion that I will meet "the one" during college. Now that i only have 1 more year left, I'm scared that I'll never meet the right one and never get married. IS the guy that is "the one" out there??
2006-11-08 07:17:32 · 10 answers · asked by cuteevalynn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm pretty sure he is, but you can't just expect him to be around or go looking for him. Concentrate on schooling and while you're preoccupied with your life a guy will come up when you least expect it. And chances are, that you may have met the "one" and never even knew it b/c it wasn't the right time for you. Just be patient and wait, and continue to build up the qualities that will make a good girlfriend/wife.
2006-11-08 07:21:21 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st of all, the right one is out there for you. I'm guessing you graduated high school very young. Graduating from college when your 21 is a great achievement. Don't stress girl, you'll find the right guy. Intelligence is a thing of beauty to a lot of guys, it might be that one is working up the nerve to ask you out and you don't know it. It sounds like you're concentrating a lot on your academic life right now.
Since you'll be 21 next year, you might find that things change. That's how it worked for me. As soon as I hit 21 years of age, everything changed. I went to bars/clubs and guys all the sudden who wouldn't approach me on the street would hit on me.
You're still very young...my suggestion is to find some clubs at school that interest you and join them. When you turn 21 go out to your 1st bar/club and have fun with your chick friends. You'll be suprised on how much things change once you turn 21. Guys look at you different; and I never figured out why.
It also might be that guys who are in your class are intimidated by you or aren't interested cuz you're soo young. Find some clubs or interests over the summer and let 21 be the year you show yourself off. Don't stress though there are people who don't even find the one in college...
Be you girl, do what you do. A guy is going to come around who loves you for who you are and for how intelligent and hard working you are. Just give it time... :)
Hope that helps.
2006-11-08 15:33:09 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous2010 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont get all down because you are getting ready to graduate and havent found that perfect other. LOve takes time, your soulmate is out there somewhere, when the timing is right he will come to you and you will know it. Dont sit around thinking that you will never be loved because you are only keeping yourself from your guy. You are still young and have plenty of time to find the right guy. Just think you are going to be finished with college, start your career and get settled in and then bam there is your pefect guy and you have all your priorites straight. SOunds even better huh. Trust me your guy is out there right now thinking the same thing as you. GOd bless you sweetie
2006-11-08 15:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by munchkin0430 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
patience really is a virtue!
Now, that doesnt mean just sit around and wait for things to happen for you. But if its always on your mind. you arent out doing the things you do love---this is how you meet other people you have things in common with that like the same things you do...making you compatible. Really. The right person will come along. Dont set time deadlines like that for yourself. Life is unpredictable.
2006-11-08 15:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by Questionnn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey like you said you are 20 years old. you have plenty of time to find the one. Don't rush it just go out and have a good time and when the time is right the one will find you. You never know you could spend your whole day talking to the one and never know until a situation presents its self.. So just be pacient and in time he / she will come to you
2006-11-09 08:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by 女性ウルバリン 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somethings you can`t plan.You just got out of school you haven`t had a chance to find the right one. You will and you`re going to find out that you`re going to have to work at that to.Have some fun as you look.
2006-11-08 15:26:05 · answer #6 · answered by Step 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i myself feel the same way.....like some alien or something. most guys just wanna f*** you, are complete losers,psychotic and obsessive,already taken or gay! im sure the guy for you is out there somewhere. i just ended my recent relationship of 7 or 8 years. trust me sweety, nothing is more loyal than a plastic and a double a battery
2006-11-08 15:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by Meeowf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ah Hon you gotta have patience...there's someone for everyone and you have to wait...dont just pick the first, you owe it to your future happiness to wait. when the right one comes along...You'll know good luck....
2006-11-08 15:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah you will never find the one and you will be lonly for ever and it will sux sorry to tell yeah
2006-11-08 15:30:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
aren't we all don't worry he will find you.
2006-11-08 15:21:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋