I'm confused about a girl i know, i've known her for about 5 years(since we were 18) and we have always been really good friends with a bit of chemistry, lots when were drunk, i was in love with her but she had a man and just used to flirt with me, and we made out a couple of times but nothing was said and she carried on with her man. Now she's been single and doesn't show as much interest when she is but recently sh had a man that went away and now she has a man and he's away she 's really into me, we accidentally ended up sharing a bed a kissing after a night out recently but nothing else, she seems to want me when she knows it cant go further, what is she thinking? Does she fancy me? Also a side point but in the morning she tickled me like mad to the point where it was pissing me off so i was jokingly grabbing her hands, she seemed to be trying to make me restrain her, does this mean she may be into a bit of soft bondage? thanks
2006-11-08 07:16:08 · 9 answers · asked by tmh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's teasing you big time.
Try playing her game back. She'll be surprised and might make up her mind about you.
2006-11-08 07:31:31 · answer #1 · answered by OO7 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she likes you, but when she split up from this guy before she wasn't ready for another relationship. As nothing was said, she probably thought that you weren't that into her. Plus, you're her friend so she doesn't want to do anything that would damage what you've already got. Now she's got another guy, she's wishing that she was with you instead. Go talk to her about your relationship (if you ended up in bed together then there'll be something to talk about) and try and find out what's going on. You may get her as a girlfriend.
2006-11-08 07:21:42 · answer #2 · answered by Katrina Van Tassel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if she wants you, but I'd say stay MILES away from her. If the two of you DID get together, you wouldn't be able to trust her not to mess around on you when you're away.
You can't say 'oh she wouldn't do that to me', because obviously she doesn't even value you enough to be in a relationship with you when she is emotionally available.
Even if she does show interest in the future, I wouldn't touch her, who gives a **** if she wants you or not, or if she's into bondage if that means being dishonest to someone who obviously doesn't derserve it.
Bottom line: You can't trust her, so it'll go nowhere.
2006-11-08 07:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by kenniemcooper 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You class this girl as a friend!...friends don't treat each other like that, she is clearly using you.
If she liked you she wouldn't just be flirting with you or kissing you when she is with someone else, another thing is what would happen if you both DID get together, who would she be snogging behind your back?
The next time she is going out with somoeone, don't make yourself so readily available for her to snog and see how she likes it, she may very well "loose it" cos she isn't getting what she wants but DON'T LET HER USE YOU, that is all she is doing.
She is messing around with your feelings.
2006-11-08 07:42:15 · answer #4 · answered by debs1701 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 13:08:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on. Get a life. You DON'T accidentally end up sharing a bed. You are 23 not 13. Take responsibility for your own actions.
If you need 'chemical comfort' (eg alcohol) to get chemistry you have much developing still to do.
2006-11-08 07:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I expect that in the best case scenario, she would want to be able to carry on with both you and her current man. I don't foresee her up and leaving this guy for you. I also don't foresee her current man being up for a polyamorous arrangement, so just cheerfully accept your status as "dirty little secret" and get on with life. Or with another girl who will give you the type and level of attention you really want in a relationship.
2006-11-08 07:19:57 · answer #7 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you but she wont tell you. Use the clues she has been giving you. Now you can give me some advice. I had a man and a couple of days after we hooked up he said he only liked me as a friend.What did he mean? I still like him but I also like his cousin.
2006-11-08 07:30:34 · answer #8 · answered by rashina m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls, you are a confusing lot!
LOL thank you!!!
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she likes you!!! its so obvious!!! go for it!
oh and when she made you grab her hands she was hinting to grab her and kiss her!!!
2006-11-08 07:56:49 · answer #9 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋