I NEED BIG TIME help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
okay, there's this girl i like at school and i like her a lot. She knows that i like her along with the whole entire school. im positive i had a chance at the start of the year, but now its gone way down and she doesnt like me AT ALL. she thinks im a stalker cause i go wherever she goes and never talk to her cause i can never figure out what to say (we have exactly the same friends and we know each other pretty well) so now im like way down in the hole and i like her too much to let her go. if you have an idea for like a "comeback" (like in sports when you're down by 2 touchdowns in the fourth quarter) please list that. im a freshman in highschool so the "comeback" idea you have can last a couple years or sumtin. dont list negative comments cause they put my self esteem down, lol. again, she doesnt really like me, and i want to literally grab her attention towards me! i need ur help so plz help ME!!!!!!! ANYTHING WOULD BE GREAT
2006-11-08 07:08:03 · 6 answers · asked by German L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just talk to her. There is nothing more creepy or frustrating about a guy who follows around a girl and won't talk to her. Get over trying to make a cool comeback if you never had anything to begin with. So start something by saying hi, introduce yourself, show your true personality and if she still doesn't like you, then she's not worth your time and someone else down the road will like you.
2006-11-08 07:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by Meagan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta grab her attention and let her know that you are interested, without being overtly stalkerish. try a makeover - cut and dye your hair, buy a new wardrobe (actually much easier to do than you think you just need to find the right stores that sell stuff for cheapish). try to get her jealous. and if all else fails, tie her up in your bedroom for you to enjoy for the rest of your life. make sure not to tie the ropes toooo tight or else she will only last a couple of weeks until the sores start to spread.
2006-11-08 15:12:56 · answer #2 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh goodness. Welll first of all if you keep stalking her she is going to continue to think ur a stalker and annoying. So maybe back off a little. If you play more hard to get, it will give her space and she will feel more comfortable in possible liking you again. If you are always on her back, she will think "ehh..i'll give him attention when i feel like it. he'll always b around." Do you know what i mean? You may even be intimidating her so she feels like she cant like you. Well i give the best of luck... and remember....try to give her space.
2006-11-08 15:13:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn that affection toward God. He is looking for His creation to worship Him. If He did not place every breath in you , you could not breath. Fall in love with Him. With out Him you can not get her and keep her and be happy any way. Get God first and He will bless you.
2006-11-08 15:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by MSNRY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you notice her following you and it make you uncomfortable, and you want her to stop if she wont tell your counselor in School or your Parents this could lead to bigger problems if you do nothing..
2006-11-08 15:31:42 · answer #5 · answered by dheck03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to tell her you really need to talk take her somewhere private and explain everything. Hope this helps:)
2006-11-08 15:13:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋