okay this is how it goes im going out with this guy and i like him ALOT i might even love him but, there is this other guy that i totally like. i cant keep myself off of him. he just so hot. he even has a tounge ring. he teases me with it . and i know he likes me b-cuz he told me. and i dont want to break up with my bf and break his heart cuz im not sure that i really like this guy or if im just obsessed with him. please help!!!!!!
2006-11-08 06:39:35 · 11 answers · asked by mariah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ur obsessed with that bad-boy. Ur obsessed with the promise of pleasure that's so good it hurts.
It's ok to fantasize, but remember, since you prolly don't know him as well as you know ur BF, you may have a pillowy perfect image of this tongue ring guy, and he may not be so peachy after you get to know him.
Ultimately the choice is yours. Just be sure to dump your BF before you start messing with Mr. Piercings.
2006-11-08 06:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is different for everyone the only way I can tell you how to tell is the way I know. Ok here goes the guy has to be your other half first of all then when you are away if all you can do id think about him then you are a little obsessed but if you two are apart and all you can do is think about him and the future you can have with him then you love him. If you can see you self old and open to him old and at his worst then it is love but if you can’t see past the now then it is obsession.
2006-11-08 14:42:59 · answer #2 · answered by KEL971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can name several qualities that person has, you really like them. If the other guy is teasing you with a tongue ring, you're in an unhealthy affair. Some people just can't seem to be happy in a good relationship, so the first jerk who comes along to screw things up for them looks very attractive.
2006-11-08 14:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by Shane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sugar, whether you really like tongue-ring or are obsessed, it really doesn't matter. does your bf deserve to have a gf that isn't totally into him? I doubt it. break up with him before you hurt him more. then go have some fun. you're not married....
2006-11-08 14:42:41 · answer #4 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume that you are still a teenager. why not do what we used to do "in the olden days" and date both guys until you decide which you like more? If they don't like it, tough, there are more guys out there, and you don't NEED a guy to make your day
2006-11-08 14:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by judy_r8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a fine line btwn love and obsession and its something that only you can figure out, my advise is to come to a decision fast because your walking a thin line as it is
2006-11-08 14:48:31 · answer #6 · answered by Shorty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i am confused....is guy #1 your b/f or just dating? if he's your b/f...then you are cheating on him with the tongue ring guy.....and the fact that you MIGHT even love him...makes it worse
simple answer is you are obsessed with tongue ring guy...
2006-11-08 14:43:02 · answer #7 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its most likely a new attraction. sSomething new always seems a bit more exciting. Be careful you might get burned if you go to far.
2006-11-08 14:42:06 · answer #8 · answered by crazzzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will give you that answer..... but if you are having doubts then break up with your boyfriend. It will hurt him more if you cheat on him.
2006-11-08 14:41:57 · answer #9 · answered by purple rain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pick one of them. Figure out for yourself who you like more.
2006-11-08 14:43:04 · answer #10 · answered by viva_bamm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋