I have a sister who is really bossy ,she is a tattletail and any time I see the guy she is there. How can we be together withount them knowing? Oh and to make it worse I dont have any way to communicate with him. We belong together. What should I do?
2006-11-08 06:25:33 · 14 answers · asked by Motormouth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who (or what) does your mother want you to be with? Girls?
2006-11-08 06:28:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If under 18 I understand your mother. No mother wants to become a grandmother. What's the age difference. Sorry mom's are always protective and there will always be another guy. My mom was the same way till I was 18.
Sorry probably not the answer you wanted.
2006-11-08 14:30:06 · answer #2 · answered by rdwngfever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your mom - she has a lot more experience in this type of thing and really just wants what's best for you. At your age, you can't possibly know that you belong with someone yet...just have fun and hang out with guys and leave the dating drama for when you're older - it'll still be there, believe me!!
2006-11-08 14:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by atxtallchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your around 13 and don't need to belong to any guy for a few years yet. Stick to doing good in school.
2006-11-08 14:28:09 · answer #4 · answered by zippo_lyp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? No responsible adult is going to tell a minor how to disobey their parent. You don't belong with anyone sweetie...you dig the boy, and that's kewl...but until your folks say it's okay for you to date or spend time with boys, you need to respect those rules...even though its a bummer.
2006-11-08 14:28:30 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, how old are you? i've been in that situation before and i got really tired of sneaking to see him. so i finally told my mother and we sat down and talked about. and if you really think that yall belong together talk to her about it. and if you are 18 or older she really can't tell you who to talk to. Don't You Think So and like that other person said she must want u to talk to girls or something. TALK TO HER AND SEE WHY SHE DON"T WANT U TALKING TO BOYS. and why can't your sister be on your side instead of telling everything you do maybe you shouldn't tell her your business.
2006-11-08 15:03:07 · answer #6 · answered by PEACHES 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and have a talk with your mom and sister. Explain to them how you feel about him and if they agree even have them meet him. Work together with your family to agree on something... your mom will appreciate it more if you handle this maturely.
2006-11-08 14:29:18 · answer #7 · answered by bree_1384 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang! You are screwed girl, My mom isn't ike that so i can't really help you out in this scenario. But The most I can say is Talk with your mom about it. Good Luck! ;)
2006-11-08 14:34:53 · answer #8 · answered by hunnii101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay so first get some dirt to use on your sister and tell her that you will tell your mom about ________ if she tells her about you and this guy. then get and email or a phone numb for this guy so you can talk, and as long as you talk about him to your parents as just a friend they'll never find out. i did that with my bf and we went out for like three months and my parents never found out. just make sure you treat him as a friend and only a friend when your around your parents!
2006-11-08 14:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by * 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha i been with my bf for 4 months and my dad has no idea i go over his house every single day..after school till i go home to eat then after dinner till like 930 then were on the phone for forever..i just tell him im goin to another friends house and were all hanging out..how olds your sister?
2006-11-08 14:27:36 · answer #10 · answered by alissaxnicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You belong to your mom right now.
Respect that.
You will get to an age where you can date.Wait it out.
What's the hurry?
2006-11-08 14:28:47 · answer #11 · answered by MISSY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋