It's been about a week, the thing is he hasn't got a mobile phone so I can't call him and he hasn't called me, I feel used because I gave him some money. We had a sexual relationship before he went away, now he is back... Should I move on, as I have someone else interseted in me. What if he calls? Should I tell him where to go? Any Advise...?
2006-11-08 06:19:14 · 15 answers · asked by sum2000mayyah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he was using you for sex.
he'll call again when he is horny and in the country.
2006-11-08 06:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by killer boot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard question to answer. It all depends on your feelings. The best thing to do is to wait. He did after all come to your country, I assume to see you but I may be wrong, you didn't say. I don't advise you to completely move on yet, it's only been a week. If you have someone interested, respond to that person. It doesn't have to be romantic right away, does it? Frankly as far as I'm concerned, if it is romantic with your next-to-be, then your lover-boy just waited too long and lost out. Don't just diss him right away, it's a little soon for that. Time will tell in this situation, just don't let time rule your life, you still need to go on with it.
Good luck to you.
2006-11-08 06:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by Rachelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him hunny!! He came back and hey if he has feelings for you he would have contacted you somehow. This other guy who is interested in you - if you like him too then let the past be past! May be the guy was in you for only some sex. Move on babe!! If he does call you just act very normal as if it means nothing to you - that you werent expecting a call from him and if he asks you that if you were into anyone - or tries to get freaky with you since he is in town then just tell him that there is someone special and you like him. Don't let him take advantage of you.
2006-11-08 06:23:45 · answer #3 · answered by Mai-Tai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 05:17:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a hooker. You gave him money for sex lol. I'm just kidding. He used you. Men are NOT worth this much brain power. Move on. If he calls, tell him to go f*ck himself.
2006-11-08 06:22:39 · answer #5 · answered by viva_bamm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've been used, sweetheart. He's probably sleeping with someone else while he is in town, or he's already skipped back home with the money you gave him.
Don't give him a second thought, learn your lesson about who you give money to... and move on.
2006-11-08 06:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop having sex with him and giving him money, and then see how he treats you. Tell him about your problems, and remember if he loves you he will understand and try and work something out...but that only works if he loves you.
2006-11-08 06:20:54 · answer #7 · answered by pudgie39759 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you giving away money?
That was your biggest mistake..giving money to him.
If he knows where you live and hasn't been back after he got the money..he won't be back except to use your body and get more cash...
2006-11-08 06:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by debbie2243 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he used you to get money and doesnt need you anymore. accept it as a loss and move on. if he calls just ignore it....unless you want your money back then tell him. otherwise move on
2006-11-08 06:22:20 · answer #9 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't seem very interested in you, once he got money and sex. If he calls, tell him he's too late.
2006-11-08 06:21:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you need to move on...
Forget the user / loser...
He got sex & money and moved on...
2006-11-08 06:22:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋