OK so my ex girlfriend broke up about 8 mouths ago and i had asked her about 5days ago if she would want to come see me she said no but today i got a phone call from her sayin she wants to come.... im soo happy and i dont want to mess it up b/c i really want her back so how should i act and what should i do? and do you think she still cares?
2006-11-08 06:02:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
William, she still cares. Despite her not calling you back, telling you to leave her alone, and blocking you on AIM. Now it's your time to shine since she is giving you a chance. I think that she has finally realized, or is in the process of realizing, that you are changing. And that is good.
If this viist goes well, yall might be able to hang out over Thanksgiving break too! Remember what your plan was before? Do that, but a little less aggressive. Don't leave that note on the pillow. Let her do her thing and you do yours. You don't want to force something on the first night back because she might be scared away. You have to treat this situation very carefully, as if she was as fragile as glass.
Go see a movie, Borat?, or rent one, cook her a nice dinner, and make brownies/cake before she gets there. Bring it out after dinner- she'll be suprised and LOVE it! I know I would, ****. Don't even expect to sleep in the same bed with her. Offer her the bed, and only sleep in the same bed if she offers you to. Otherwise, kick your brother out of his and put him on the couch.
Good luck, and I'm sorry.
2006-11-08 15:16:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, seeing that she was in a relationship with you and therefor knows exactly who and what you are, it can only mean that she still has feelings for you. But be careful not to appear overly eager. The fact that she first said no, means that she has some doubts. Now you must convince her that the two of you belong together. But you must do it in such a way that it does not make a pathetic beggar of you. Be cool, calm and confident when you meet her again. Add a little charm and stay in control of the situation. Don't ask her immediately to try again. You can't pick up where you stopped 8 months ago. This must be a fresh start. Surprise her with a new witty you! I'm sure things are going to work out just fine for the two of you if you play your cards right. Good luck!
2006-11-08 07:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by ina W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She care but I'm sure she has doubts. She be yourself and give her attention very important remind her why you guys first got together do not I repeat do not bring up past crap. And don't be surprised if she brings someone else just be cool about it and cry later.
2006-11-08 06:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋