I know this is an unusual question but..?

Question

See if you have boyfriend, how do u keep your conversations going? Like when he calls how to you find a topic to keep talking and talking about. Do u ever run out of something to talk about? I know that usually if its your bf then you have common interests to talk about but you cant always talk about these constantly.....i wonder....anyone?

Answer 1

When you can't find anything to talk about then get off the phone :)

Answer 2

You always need space.

I work away at sea and call home every day. Sometimes we talk for an hour and it seems like just a few minutes. Other times I am tired, or she is tired, or we genuinely do not have much to talk about. It happens - and it does not signify the end of the relationship - just that we have no need to say too much that particular night. No harm done

We always end the conversation nicely (love you, home soon etc), no matter how long or short the talk has been.

Why keep the conversation going just for the sake of it? There is no need.

Answer 3

There are such things as 'comfortable silences', that's true, but only with the right person. As Mia says to Vincent in Pulp Fiction: 'They say that's how you know when you've met your soul mate - when you can just shut the f*ck up and enjoy the silence together.'

Doesn't really work over the phone, though. People seem embarrassed about having nothing to say, but the best policy is to just be honest. Simply say something like "I;ve got nothing to say ... I hate that, don't you?"

You'll probably find your bf is struggling just the same and would welcome an ice-breaker like that.

Answer 4

YES THERE IS ALWAYS RUNNING OUT OF TOPICS...USUALLY HOW THERE DAY WAS FOLLOWED BY YOURS PLANS FOR THE NIGHT/WEEKEND. ANYTHING EXCITING HAPPENING DURING THE DAY. CURRENT EVENTS PEOPLE YOU RAN INTO THERE IS TONS OF CONVERSATION STARTERS USUALLY THE CONVERSATION FLOWS BETTER IF YOU DON'T ASK YES OR NO QUESTIONS THAT WAY THE CONVERSATION CAN LAST AND USUALLY SOMETHING THEY SAY IN A SENTENCE TRIGGERS SOMETHING ELSE TO TALK ABOUT INSTEAD OF YES OR NO ANSWERS, THEY KILL THE CONVERSATION.

Answer 5

it happens sometimes. dont speak on the phone for hours, jus keep it nice and sweet. you can always text or chat on the internet. write him a letter !! to be honest though if you love someone things to talk about come natuarally, if you are struggling to find stories then there could be a problem

Answer 6

i live with my boyfriend so i see him everyday. sometimes we dont talk and just be with each other or other times we just talk simply that.when we were dating we never talked on the phone for long cuz there wasnt too much to say. We just spent a lot of time together.

Answer 7

me and my bf have run up huge phone bills talking about absolute twoddle!! buts its great LOL. you dont need to "pick" a subject to talk about it just kinda happens and that subjects leads to more that lead to more and voila before you know it youve been on the phone for two hours. its even worse when we are together we talk about any and every thing, but at least we dont run up bills then!!

every day is different so you always have something different to talk about....if you have trouble talking to your bf then maybe he isnt right for you?

Answer 8

Just say something completely random, that's what I used to do, always got the conversation going again. Sounds weird but it works and sometimes funny especially if you say something funny.

Answer 9

Do you have a life outside of each other?spend some time away from each other and when you get back you will BOTH have plenty to talk about and will enjoy each others company so much more.

Answer 10

there aren't many guys who are good at talking on the phone... yours may be one of them, so if the conversation drys up, make your excuses and end the phonecall. he'll soon get the message and start to make more of an effort.