Should I give her another chance?
2006-11-08 05:55:47 · 44 answers · asked by tone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes of course, at least she has been very honest
2006-11-08 05:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by The brainteaser 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes and No.
If you feel that she won't do it again and completely trust her then yes.
Did you ask her why she went on a date with another guy?, to me there are no good enough excuses for that as if she really wanted to see the movie, she could of went with you.
Trust is a hard thing to earn back so make sure you have a clear head when making this decision.
2006-11-08 08:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by debs1701 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way surely going out to amovie took planning it clearly wasn't a spur of the moment mistake. She is taking you for a ride expecting you to be there i expect this other guy doesn't want anything more than sex and now shes realised this shes crawling back. You seem really nice but maybe a bit too nice, she doesn't seem worth your while i think you'll find someone much better for you
2006-11-08 06:15:18 · answer #3 · answered by String of pearls 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no...she went behind your back...dump her...sorry or not she still went ahead and went out with this guy without you knowing...imagine if you went out with a girl to the flicks and kissed her...would your girl like it? my answer is NO she's go mad...if she gives you that old line (were just good friends) don't buy it...there's ALWAYS more to it than that...get someone that's going to be faithful...not some bird who does things behind your back...she must have wanted to otherwise you would not be posting this question...she cannot be trusted...and YES she will do it again....ask yourself this....how many times has she done this before? she may have done alot more but you just don't know about it...be careful...
2006-11-08 06:03:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
another chance to do what? Go on another date with another guy and kiss him? How much is there that you haven't found out? She and this guy had to have had something going on long before the movie and the kissing.
2006-11-08 05:57:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Did she say why she did it? Why is she going to a movie with another guy...clearly someone she likes? It's up to you to make the final decision, but know that it's likely to happen again. She shouldn't have put herself in a position where something like that could even happen....
2006-11-08 06:14:11 · answer #6 · answered by atxtallchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how did you find out...? Did she tell you herself...? If she did, well it shows that she is honest and feels bad about it but the fact that she done it shows she is not really as committed to you as she'd like to be... The choice is yours, It's gonna be hard to trust her again... Sugest having a break from each other, at least that way you can take time out and see how you both feel about each other...
2006-11-08 07:04:40 · answer #7 · answered by sum2000mayyah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is quite a BIG thing, but its really down to you in the end. If she says she is sorry and you truly believe she means it then forgive her. But, if you have any doubts then break up with her, its hard but it is less painful then finding out in 5 months she still going out with that bloke and they have slept together. Follow your heart, if it feels right go with it!!!!
2006-11-08 06:01:06 · answer #8 · answered by xxx-ponky-xxx 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
would u do the same to her?? in the sense are u as light abt the relationship n are u both flinging??
in that case, yea give her a chance, and u take some other female to the movies n kiss her.. no issues.
and btw, if u r so serious abt her, u'll take her with what she did.. well.. its time u chucked her.. she is not as serious..
2006-11-08 05:58:24 · answer #9 · answered by anamika 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She SHOULD be sorry...and the 2nd chance is up to you...how much do you dig her? Is this the first issue y'all have had? Do you feel you can trust she won't do something like that again?
Make your decision based on your knowledge of her and previous experiences with her...everyone makes mistakes...can you forgive or no?
2006-11-08 05:58:41 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No second chance. If you let this disrespect go, what will you let go next time.
Is she sorry she behaved that way or sorry she got caught?
It seems she thinks that by owning up to it, she is relieved of the burden of her improper behavior. It's still her responsibility.
2006-11-08 06:01:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋