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2006-11-08 05:53:26 · 26 answers · asked by chica bonita 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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No way! If that's the case, I've cheated a bunch of times!

2006-11-08 05:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by 2Good4U 4 · 0 0

I t considers how far you take it. If you are rubbing up against the other person getting will close to them and maybe even just always trying to be around them I would say yes. If it is just harmful teasing and joking and talking I would say no. The thing that crosses the line is when the flirting becomes more then just harmless fun but instead when you are trying to get a reaction from that person you are flirting with. For example if a girl is wearing a short skirt and bends over or sits with legs open so a guy can see up it or if she wears a shirt for a guy to see down it then that approaches the line of cheating. If a guy tries to put moves on a girl or tries to touch her , or even tries to flirt just to see how far he can go with her then it becomes cheating

2006-11-08 14:04:37 · answer #2 · answered by shycountryboy85 3 · 0 0

if you are wondering where to draw the line, you're already considering cheating.

flirting by someone committed to another relationship is deceitful to the other partner and to the person being flirted with...with the possible exception of old buddies when everyone knows you are merely clowning around and there is no chance of misunderstanding, and preferably your partner is right there enjoying the banter also.

go flirt with your own guy! otherwise you are just stupidly playing with fire.

2006-11-08 14:01:24 · answer #3 · answered by cryllie 6 · 0 0

Mild flirting lets you know you're alive.
Wild flirting lets you know you're gonna be alone.

If it offends the one your with. Don't.

My husband has been known to have trouble peelings his eyes off a half naked body wandering around.
I'm not worried. It means he's human. It also must mean I've got something worth coming home to even if I'm not size 2 with huge implants.
I tease him about it.
If I make a comment about some guy, he makes a joke about it. He might say, "Tell him to bring a Uhaul that will hold all 3 of the kid's car seats and all your junk.". Ha Ha. He calls me from work every day before he comes home and says "Tell Pablo (or whatever name he thinks of) to get out of my house. I'm coming home and your boyfriend better be gone when I get there." (Yes, he thinks he's a comedian.)
If he gets hit on at work, he tells me. It makes him feel good. It makes me feel good to know he's hot and he's all mine.
If he or I went overboard with the flirting...that would be something all together different.
You can't let it get touchy-feely, raunchy or otherwise inappropriate. You can't let it get emotional either. The physical isn't the only way to cheat.

2006-11-08 14:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by soccermomw3 3 · 1 0

Depends on WHY you're flirting...that's a pretty fine line to defend when you're already spoken for.
I'll put it this way....I used to go out with a couple different girls that had some interesting definitions (or rationalizations) as to what exactly constitutes cheating. They'd fight furiously for their right to flirt, even though they were supposed to be exclusive.
BOTH wound up cheating anyway...one of them repeatedly!!
Basically, it all boils down to how much of a conscience you have..people tend to make VERY BROAD definitions when they want to bend the rules to suit themselves.

2006-11-08 13:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Hell no, My wife knows I am the biggest flirt alive today. I flirt with her sister, her friends, even her mom when I am around her. She knows I flirt w/ strange women when she is not around but trust me with good reason. Married 9 years and I havent cheated. Flirting is great for your self esteem, and ego. I like to flirt with everyone. Even ugly girls or fat girls because I have seen it boost their self confidence. Perhaps just a wink. I'll even flirt w/ a gay guy if I think it will make them feel better about themselve. I am comfortable w/ my sexuality.

2006-11-08 14:00:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

why are u flirting? is that just ur personality? then id say no. if ur flirting to try to get significant other jealous then id say u need to figure out whats wrong in ur relationship to make u thnk thats neccessary..i wouldnt say that would be cheating, dysfunctional, yes! if he thinks its cheating than u have some issues to deal with...why dos he feel that way? whats he so afraid of?

2006-11-08 14:00:17 · answer #7 · answered by ~LAX Mom~ 5 · 0 0

I don't think flirting is cheating... we ARE human... BUT... don't be putting yourself in a position where you are THINKING about cheating. Flirting a little is okay, as long as your going home happily to your honey = )

2006-11-08 14:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by evDub 2 · 0 0

Suppose it depends on how much and with whom. If your fliriting with someone who is interested in you then yes I would say it is. However, if you are you are flirting for the fun of it with someone you know would not use it to their advantage then I see no problem with it. Fact of live is that everyone at one time or another is guilty of flirting.

2006-11-08 13:57:34 · answer #9 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0 0

Depends on what your idea of cheating is. You should talk to the person you think you might be cheating on and get that straightened out ASAP!

2006-11-08 13:57:01 · answer #10 · answered by atxtallchick 3 · 0 0

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