What if your husband or your boyfriend doesn't initiate it or doesn't ever give signal. What will you gonna do or what's your feeling about it? Is it ok for you not to have sex for long period of time even if you're living with your partner? Lets say he is just busy thinking other things or not sexually active like others.
2006-11-08 05:52:25 · 17 answers · asked by arnold g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want it and he isn't giving it out............You TAKE it! Just walk right up to him....give him a hug....grab his butt....and say follow me.....then just attack him!.....If he is not into that.......he is gay!
2006-11-08 05:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do initiate sex with my husband, but I have a stronger sex drive then he does: however, I like it when he initiates as well. I would wonder if he never did or if he was too busy to have sex. I guess I would start giving him a do list everyday and making sure I was at the top of that list.....1. Do your wife
2. Do everything else
Some couples go a while without having sex, but I think it is healthier to have as much sex as you can. I did go six weeks right after I had the baby....but that was killer. People are different and they have different needs.
2006-11-08 05:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First let me say that the 2 of you should've determined how your sex life was going to be prior to living together. Depending on the individuals sex drive, partners can go months without interacting with each other. Me personally I go after what I want, and if that doesn't work I tell my boyfriend what my needs and wants are. some men find this attractive from a female and some men don't.Perhaps talking to your man would be a start so that the both of know the needs and wants of each other. But you shouldn't sacrifice your sexual happiness, because then you'll seek it elsewhere and that leads to BIGGER problems
2006-11-08 06:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by light skinned 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you live together, I would question his behavior because where else is he getting it from? Is he cheating?
Other than that, there is nothing wrong with initiating sex. You can do it, however, you are probably dealing with a man who is selfish. For instance, if he does initiate, he initiates just enough to get you started and then leaves everything else up to you. Like it's all about him. When you have a guy like this, he needs to work a little harder to please you. Everything is ordinary already.
Don't be afraid to initiate sex but make it clear your seeking pleasure.
2006-11-08 06:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with not having sex all the time as long as you both show other ways of loving each other sometimes stress keeps people from wanting sex talk to you partner about it. Otherwise why not take the initive if you want some! Good Luck!
2006-11-08 05:55:30 · answer #5 · answered by MelC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband loves sex and so do I. I'm usually the one to initiate it. Once he goes for it were fine, but he does have a lot on his mind. I know the feelings.
2006-11-08 05:55:55 · answer #6 · answered by Bridgett D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can't speak for everyone, but I do initiate it and it is a problem for me personally if there is no sex in a relationship, because that's a whole level of intimacy that's missing.
2006-11-08 05:55:58 · answer #7 · answered by rainmonster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he never started it...damn...im the aggressive type id push him down and get on top. No man is gonna say no to that. What man in his right mind is too busy for sex?
2006-11-08 05:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by godscutie415 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women dont want it they need it! ill be the first to admit if my bf doesnt start it i will just pounce on top of him;p but if u guys r still close and love each other the sex will fix itself eventually good luck
2006-11-08 05:59:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should each take your turn initiating. Make games with it have fun! I think if I intiate and he turns me down WOW bye bye baby! That takes so much out of a relationship.
2006-11-08 05:56:54 · answer #10 · answered by marie1257 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
occassionally, I would stir the pot. take the initiatve.
set the tone with a romantic dinner by candle light, spray the bed with perfume, etc. wear the right outfit to bed, and call him into the bedroom in a nice way.
in short, lead the thirsty horse to the water he forgot was there.
2006-11-08 05:55:47 · answer #11 · answered by smartkid37138 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋