I am insecure in my relationship although i try not to be but i still am. I love my gf very much and i trust her but to be honest i don't think i really deserve her. She is so great and fun and I am a dumb boring country hick . My question is how can I be more secure with my relationship and not so worried that some guy will come and steal her heart away from me
2006-11-08 05:49:50 · 5 answers · asked by shycountryboy85 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she didnt want to be with you....she wouldnt be.
2006-11-08 05:54:47 · answer #1 · answered by FairChild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, honey, no woman wants an insecure man and it will start to interfere with your relationship. Stop inventing problems that don't exist. If you didn't deserve her, she wouldn't be with you. If you trust her and have faith in her, then just accept that she is where she wants to be. Don't drive her away with your insecurities.
2006-11-08 13:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by justcurious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your not giving yourself enough credit... you're probably a really great guy and obviously your gf can see that even though you cant... assure her that you love her and feel lucky to have her (girls love to hear that) but never act as if she is too good for you, no one is too good for anyone, as long as they are both happy what does it matter anyway... hang in there and maybe try to gain more confidence in yourself and your relationships...be proud of who you are - there is only one you
2006-11-08 13:58:55 · answer #3 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just asking this question proves that your sensitive and you care about her. don't be so hard on yourself. you might want to tell her how your feeling(don't make it sound like you think she'll cheat on you!). try some self-esteem building exercises, that might help.
Let me know how it goes!
2006-11-08 13:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by embai@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do u need help with i will help u
2006-11-08 13:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by sexi girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋