Is being with the father of your child worth fighting for 9all the time)?

Answer 1

No and it's not good for the kid, either---he/she will grow up thinking a "normal" relationship between and man and woman is one that "fights all the time".

Oh wait, you meant you're fighting for the relationship. Well what the heck, who or what are you fighting? If he's not wanting to be with you, then let the turkey go. No man is worth your tears.

Answer 2

No I don't believe that you stay with the father of your child if all you ever do is fight. You don't need to put your child through that stress. The environment should be a pleasent one. Even if you and the father can't work things out between yourselves, at least keep contact for the child's sake. No child should grow up without a mother and father. Now if your talking physically fighting or verbally that makes a big difference too. The child doesn't need to be around an abusive father, neither do you. Verbally scars just as bad.

Answer 3

No, if you are in a bad, or unhappy situation, then you dont want your child around that either. You shouldnt feel obligated to stay with the father, but you do however, need to talk with the father and figure out some way of visitation, so that everyone is happy. Dont bring the child in the middle of it either. It would be best if the child just didnt really know anything, except that his mommy and daddy dont live together anymore.

Answer 4

It is worth it to the child. Would you rather see him or her grow up not knowing you and wondering how you could have been as a parent, or actually being there and your child knowing. Children need all the love and support they can get.

Maybe you and the mom need to sit down and work out a plan on how the child is to be raised and who see the child when. Set ground rules and follow them.

Answer 5

A mother risks her life for the child. A father should do more, no matter how ungrateful the child could get. Discipline is part of parenting a child. Once you become a parent, you automatically give the child the priority. You only deserve to think about yourself once your child is okay.

Answer 6

I thought so, and I did but it still didn;t work. By all means try everything you can but you need to have a cut off point. Don't stay if he is violent, he will never change. I get on better with the Dad of my daughter now than we ever did when we were together. When I look back I didn't love him but at the time I thought I did because we were married and we had a child together.

Answer 7

well it depends, if you are happy with the father of your child then yes, but if the father of your child makes you unhappy don't. Under no circumstances should you be with someone just because you have a child with them because 9 times out of 10 if you are unhappy in the relationship than your child is unhappy to. Good luck, i hope this helps.

Answer 8

Yes and no... My fiance and I just got back together and b4 we broke up we were together for 6 years... while we broke up tha last time he got a girl pregnant and for a while she kept crossing her boudaries and getting between me and him and to be honest I about kicked her @$$!!! but now things are better she realizes that me and him are ment to be together and knows that i 100% support him having something to do with his son I love him like he was my own and would not ask him to not see him for ne thing in the world me and her have worked out most of our differences and now she even calls me and asks me to come get the baby when he cant!!! but on the other hand if you love him and he is not with anyone else you should express your concern b/c if you are with him or not you should do whats best for the baby because as long as u trust that he is going to be there for the baby and try to be the best father that he can be regardless of yalls situation that is better than him not being in the picture at all!

Answer 9

No. BUt you didnt go into detail. Why are you fighting? Is he abusive in any way? (ie emotionally, physically, verbaly, sexually, spiritually) Is it something you could try councling for before you end it? Anyways though- if you have problems and have tried everything and they cant be resolved,.. you should leave. Everyone thinks its better for the kids to stay together no matter how crappy their relationship and that is sooo not right. It sucks for you and makes your life a living hell.. but it will also make your childs. I grew up in a house like that- it took my mom 27 years to leave my abusive dad. It did more damage than it ever could have done good - them staying together "for the kids".

Answer 10

If you actually thought you could work through it, but for the childs sake you shouldn't because they can be more hurt by your argueing than anything even if the child does not hear you they can sense it.