I really want to meet someone great?

Question

but I dont know where to go, I dont have the money for date sites or dating places, I dont go out much because I have kids full time, I dont really know how to date, am I a loser and should I just give up?

Answer 1

Utilize the places that you could meet other single parents such as school functions, parent groups etc. Also they have community fuctions in most towns that are for singles to get together to meet. Read you local personal ads in the paper as well. I wouldnt be so tough on yourself. Just because you dont know where to start or to look does not make you a loser and you should definately not give up...everyone deserves happiness and there is someone terrific out there for you...keep searching!!! Good luck to you.

Answer 2

Don't Look For It It Will Come When You Least Expect It

Your Not A Loser Don't Tell Yourself That

Go Out More To The Park, The Grocery Store, Church. It Will Be Where You Least Expect It.

Answer 3

There are plenty of single Parent support groups of this nature, and there are some real lookers in there too! Also try community family functions. You may have to make it clear at the beginning that you value them, you just can't afford them. At that point she may even take you out.

You can also utilize your children in the park. Kids can make friends really fast with strangers. Send your son/daughter over to meet the pretty stranger reading a book with a simple question. Then you can go over and say hello while retrieving your child and apologizing if necessary. You'll never seem sexier than when you're playing with your kid.

Answer 4

if you don't have money for a date site that range from what 25-35 bucks?, then you don't have money to show someone special a great night out... not to sound materialistic, but you have to court/date a girl to get her... and watching a movie at home is not a date, thats hanging out... your not a loser, you just have to be smart about meeting someone... not at the bar... take the kids to the park, or something like that..

Answer 5

Hello

You are not a looser!! You are a busy man that has a family that you obviously care about. And just don't have time for your self.

You could always go to places where you could take the kids. Like a library or parks. Somewhere where there are other single with kids.

Just remember that you aren't a looser and all hope isn't lost..]


Keep trying

Best of luck

Answer 6

focus your family should come first. maybe you will meet someone at school.i dont think your a loser and i know your not over your ex yet. so i would just focus on the family and keeping everyone above water. you still have your hand right? im a single parent and havent met anyone in 3 years. i dont think of it its not a issue for me and im content.believe just get laid who wants the headaches and dont forget the aggrivation. and now we have to worry about them liking our kids.family first.play later.

Answer 7

Never give up. Go out with the kids to the park and places other single parents may go out to. Join a group thru the park disctrict if there is one in your area.

Answer 8

well as a sixteen year old girl i had a single mom for a while and she felt the same way, but she met my step dad on the internet and they've been together for seven years, personally i dont like him that much and i think that sometimes life would be better if were'nt there but i know he loves me and my mom loves him so my point is, don't forget about your kids and always have them approave of the new someone, and im sure you'll find her

Answer 9

Meetsingles

Answer 10

go to their school at all the meetings and etc.. maybe u will meet a nice single mom! take your kids to the movies or the mall somewhere like that where u will meet other single parents