theres this guy and i really like him and i think he likes me too hes always flirting with me and rubbing his leg on mine during math class but theres only one thing on his mind gettin in a girls pants i dont know wat to do about this situation he said im too young for him im half a year younger but then he told my friend that he liked me i dont know what to do getinvolved with him stay away what i need help!!!!!!!
2006-11-08 05:36:48 · 26 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ive never had s e x before i dont think he has either he just tells everybody he has cause i mean were only in our younger teens
2006-11-08 05:45:04 · update #1
This is obviously a true gentleman with no motives other than to get to know you better. it is really great that he pointed out to you that you are too young. So you might just try and become more mature. i say dress up like a tart and see if that get him to pay more attention to you. i think that because you meet in math class he must be very well educated and you might want to ask him if you can go over to his home and have him tutor you. OK did you get the sarcasm in this or does he need to get in your pants and then dump you for another quick lay? COME NOW get your head out of the math book. We(men) are bad! We don't want to carry your books, we don't want to hold doors open for you. All we want to do is smooch and if we can't smooch you we will go for your best friend. By Smooch I mean hominy-hominy-hominy.Wink wink nudge nudge you know.
2006-11-08 05:47:36 · answer #1 · answered by Casca 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep it moving!! It sounds like you are still in school and that is what you need to be focused on. I had my 1st child at 16 yrs. old and it started with the exact same thing you are talking about now. If you are not ready for parenthood then you really need to think twice about what you are doing. Condoms and birth control aren't 100 % because I was using both when I got pregnant. I love my children dearly but it is so hard to get back on your feet when you have things that interupt your flow!
2006-11-08 05:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if all he wants to do is get in the pants i think you should try to mess with him like that. I depends if he is a dog. you don't want to get caught up with someone if they play a lot ot childish games and who might give you the wrong appearance to everyone else. (trust me I have seen it happen before).
And as far as age. if you are only a half of year younger him then mentally you are more mature then he is. most of the guys are 2 years younger in the mind then females.
How he is acting it sounds like he does like you. If he is playing like that then ease up a little. You don't want to make it so obvious that you like him.
1st make sure he isn't a dog. ( don't no body have time messing with those kind of males)
2nd pay attention how he acts when it is just you two then if he acts the same way when he is around his friends( if he doesn't it might be a waist and he only wants to have relations and not a relationship
3rd you can have you friend ask him questions to see if he does like you like you like him. and if he wants to be with someone like you
2006-11-08 05:47:27 · answer #3 · answered by just_sexy 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well if i love when ppl think they like soem one, but that is besides the fact, if you like him ask him out, ask him to come over to "study" if he just wants in your pants and you don't want that then stay way, and a half of a year younger is too young give me a break i can tell you are prob a freshman or softmore, lol, any way take control and ask him out and see if you do relaly like him after spending time with him
2006-11-08 05:42:20 · answer #4 · answered by dom_parnell 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honestly I think that u should stay away from him b/c it seems to me that he only has one thing on his mind and that isn't good. Guys like that aren't worth the time. U need to go find u someone who wants u for u and not what u have in your pants.
2006-11-08 05:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by sweety_8620 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it somewhat is user-friendly to love one yet another yet puzzling to stay mutually. Thats why there is not any such factor like fortunately ever after. detect a mate with issues in undemanding there'll be much less combat and war of words
2016-10-21 11:52:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he most likely just wants in ur pants...but there r some decent guys out there if u feel u could handle going out but put ur foot down as soon as u get uncomfortable go for ti but be careful and no means no honey! dont let him take advantage of u
2006-11-08 05:42:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Time to be up front with him. Tell him you know what's he after and you aren't down with that. Then, if he's really interested in you as a person and not just someone to have sex with, you'll know.
2006-11-08 05:40:46 · answer #8 · answered by stacye5398 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey! if you like himand as you say are inexperienced then it is natural of you to like to have sex with him. and i do not sense much of a problem as he himself cares about you saing that you are young. and as far as rubbing legs is concerned then maybe he wants to show that he is ready if you allow.
if you are old enough for it , just go ahead.
2006-11-08 05:46:24 · answer #9 · answered by sweety 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
trust me dear, I was in the same situation years ago,
do what is best & just BE HIS FRIEND, if he's just out for a girl so he can have sex w/ her & then move on then he's NOT very caring & only selfish, who wants that type of guy for a b-friend, MOVE on !
2006-11-08 05:44:10 · answer #10 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋