my bf and i met at work and fell for each toher instantly we kept it hidden for all of like 2 weeks and then people noticed his ring hanging around my neck. obviously theyve gotten suspicious how do we do this without all our coworkers maeddling in our relationship?
2006-11-08 05:34:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey gurl you should follow your heart and if you want to date him date him dont let people tell you otherwise i am in the same problem my friends and other people dont know were dating tell them otherwise theyll figure it out some other way and i bet thed rather here it from you instead of someone else
so go for it gurl
2006-11-08 05:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it would be very hard to do if your coworkers are all up in your bussines. Is there a rule at work that prohibits coworkers dating? If so then take the ring out of your neck and keep it on the low, if not then just let everyone know that you are together. What is the big deal anyways?
2006-11-08 05:49:25 · answer #2 · answered by marialejandra c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on whether your company has a policy on it. If it does and you really like each other, then one of you should find another job. If it doesn't, then keep doing it. But for the love of Christ, be a little subtle about it. Avoid PDAs and wearing his charms around your neck at work. What is this? Middle school? No. It's a professional company. And that means it's nobody else's business what you do before or after work.
2006-11-08 05:38:09 · answer #3 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, find out your company policy on dating coworkers. Most companies allow it as long as neither of you is a direct supervisor of the other. Even so, don't hang out with him too much at work, don't talk about him with coworkers unless it's to do with work, and just try to treat him like he's just another coworker when you're at your job, if you want people to leave you alone about it.
2006-11-08 05:42:00 · answer #4 · answered by rainmonster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's according to where you work. Most places prohibit on the job relationships. People will talk no matter what. It's up to you whether or not you let it get to you.
2006-11-08 05:38:41 · answer #5 · answered by divalicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing is that you can't hid love, the more you try it the more it explode.
so forget it trying to hid it, except you are fooling each other.
i would have suggest that you play low, i mean not minding each other while at work, but you can hid the feeling..
i believe your boss will understand, so it better you talk with him/her and you both don't have to worry about your co-worker if they are jealousy tell them to go and find someone that will love them too
2006-11-08 05:44:11 · answer #6 · answered by phemmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really shouldn't date someone you met at work to begin with.
Your co-workers will meddle because it's human nature to be nosy jerks. :)
2006-11-08 05:37:53 · answer #7 · answered by Laquishacashaunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not mention your relationship at work! Or if you really do not care and love him, than you should not care.
2006-11-08 05:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by The Calculus Alchemist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter... who cares what they think? you guys shouldn't have to hide your relationship.. if people ask you about it, say you'd rather keep your personal life and your social life seperate.. and try to do just that
2006-11-08 05:38:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out if your boss would have a problem with it.
if not, go for it.
2006-11-08 05:36:48 · answer #10 · answered by smartkid37138 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋